HHHHEEEELLLPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!

rocker_chick · 03-10-2005, 07:16 PM

I have this problem, I like this guy adn at first it was just playful but now i feel like i have SERIOUS strong feelings for him here is the problem HE LIVES HALF A COUNTRY AWAY!!!!!! I am so sad casue it feels like well nothing i have ver felt before nad osemtimes when i think about it i find myself crying I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OneHope · 03-10-2005, 07:32 PM

How did you develop such strong feelings for him if he lives half a country away?

**Simo** · 03-10-2005, 07:36 PM

how long have you known him?

how well do you know him?

rocker_chick · 03-10-2005, 07:36 PM

I got to know his personality better than anything and i have never seen one like it, I never meant to feel this way we were just friends

rocker_chick · 03-10-2005, 07:37 PM

i know him pretty well i have known him for like 3 months

**Simo** · 03-10-2005, 07:38 PM

cool... are you confused about how you feel?

how old are you?

rocker_chick · 03-10-2005, 07:41 PM

i am 14 and i know that is young but its just not the same, im confused about how i feel what it means and what to do

tht00 · 03-10-2005, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by rocker_chick

i am 14 and i know that is young but its just not the same, im confused about how i feel what it means and what to do

just hormones kicking in. get used to it.

seriously, it doesn't sound like there is a whole lot that you can do. crushes come and go. wait a while before pursuing serious relationships.

OneHope · 03-10-2005, 07:47 PM

I would suggest talking to him about it. Personally, I don't think its good for someone your age to do long distance dating or dating for that matter. But, if you are set in your ways then I suggest talking to him.

rocker_chick · 03-10-2005, 07:50 PM

Thanx guys, if you have an SERIOUS questions please pm me cause he goes to this site and i think if he reads this he will know. Also tht00 i dont know if i can forget ti cause i find myself crying all the time nad i dont mean to

**Simo** · 03-10-2005, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by rocker_chick

i am 14 and i know that is young but its just not the same, im confused about how i feel what it means and what to do

Im not the kind of person who says you have to be at a certain age to date. I think in your case it would be very difficult.

I would suggest two things:

1) Build a good relationship with him. My girlfriend and i were friends for 5 years before we started dating. This way you will get to know him, and see if this is something that is right for you and him.

2) Limit your contact with him. Try to forget about him and move on with your life. Sure still keep in touch, but try to not think about him too much.

Hope this helps