[Shredcheddar]

Originally Posted by cory_burnett05

what is a good way to ask a girl out?

Hello girl. Go on a date with me.

[cory_burnett05]

Originally Posted by Mattlock

Step one

Walk up to her

Step two

Say hello

Step three

Say these 6 words "will you go out with me?"

Step four

Hope that she says yes... er... maybe.

nice...

[bobthecockroach]

Originally Posted by Blindman

Well, the best approach is usually to let the friendship progress until you've reached a level of honesty and maturity in that friendship where it's perfectly natural to discuss with each other whether you want to move to something more than just friendship.

If you want that friendship-maturing process to happen faster, invite her out to lunch or something where you can talk one-on-one and get to know each other better. It's perfectly acceptable (although occasionally misunderstood) to simply tell someone, "I'd like to get to know you better. Can we meet for lunch some time?"

Great advice. I totally agree (for whatever that's worth).

[Art]

You: "Hey... do you like Cauliflower?"
Her: "Yes/No."
"Ahh, that's cool... so... Will you marry me?"

Works every time. I have a friend who actually used that line.

[Nate]

Originally Posted by Art

Works every time. I have a friend who actually used that line.

C'mon... you have to at least tell us the end result.

[botruckin]

The best way to ask a girl out? The best way to ask a girl out is just ask her if she'd like to go out some time. She'll either say yes, no, or maybe. (maybe will probably be the answer because women can never give a yes or no answer, they always try to say maybe or something.)

[FilltheEarth]

You're not going to ruin her friendship wih you if you ask her out. A lot of times too a girl is friends with a guy and HOPING he'll ask her out. But even if she isn't, you won't ruin her friendship with you UNLESS:

You can't accept no for an answer.

If you ask her, and she says no, then tell her that it's cool with you, you won't ever bug her about it again, and that you hope she won't let this ruin your friendship with her. Then step back, don't act pushy, and things should go fine.

BUT, if you ask her and she says YES, then, well, have fun!

[Art]

Originally Posted by Nate

C'mon... you have to at least tell us the end result.

As I said, it works every time. They didn't get married, though she said yes.

[Opie]

Originally Posted by SilverNitrate

Stare at her while you're walking.... as she makes eye contact with you, smile awkwardly and run into something. (ie. a wall, a trash can, someone else) Then stand up, brush yourself off, look at her again and say "That was your fault." From there, she will fall madly in love with you for the rest of your days.

I tried this and she just said I was a stupid klutz...

[Nathanael]

be confident. that's all it takes.

ed: read nazinhale's thread anorexia in advice and watch for a reply to my post.

[4Glory]

You have to build up to that point. I"d recommend asking her first to go on a group thing with you and some other friends, for examples "My friends and I are going to this greath Christian youth event, would you like to join us? I think you'd really like it..." If she says yes then aragne to go and then afterwards stop for a coffe at local coffee shop (in Canada any Tim Hortons is great) Then arange for all of your friends to conviently leave at one time discreetely, thus leaving you and her alone IN A PUBLIC place to talk and get to know each other a little better....if you are comfterable and feel you know her well enough then tell her "you know $name, I really enjoyed this event with you, I"m glad you were able to come, perhaps sometime in the future we could do this again..."
Build up to it...then later ask her out in a romantic, understanding way that isn't any of those halarious but sure to get you slapped pickup lines...
Goodluck!