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Old 01-29-2005, 08:15 PM   #16
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Taking the year off to not date is a great idea. Between my 15th and 16th year of life I made that commitment. I decided to 'date' God rather than chasing after 'my crushes.' Now it won't be easy, of course. But it's really rewarding and a good decision. Maybe not the right decision for everyone, but it was for me. I went through a time where I had never ever dated an actual Christian. During that year I realized a lot. I realized that before I can let someone else get to know me on a deeper level, I needed to know who I was. Who God wanted me to be. At the time I was so confused, and I honestly couldn't tell you who I was. But since I let God take the wheel and drive, He's transformed me into the God serving young women that I am today. And the best part of all is that He's not done with me yet..He's still transforming me and preparing me for that one young man-young man of God-that He has for me. And now I will not date a nonbeliever. You need to be on the same spiritual maturity level, I honestly believe that. Good luck with this year! And just continually pray to God for support and strength.

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Old 01-30-2005, 09:15 PM   #17
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Im going to take your advice bout dating, i am going to take a break from dating and think bout what u guys had to say to me. i am going to set a goal to not date for the whole of this year and maybe start dating again at the end of the year or begining of next year. but i know now not to date my non-Christian friends again.

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Thats good hear, but you dont... i should say that as soon as youre mature enough for dating, just dont do it. It could be a month, it could be 3 years. Only God will tell. So the goal should be: Not to date anyone until you are mature enough for a serious relationship (btw, all your relationships should be serious, not just for fun or for companionship) and by God's standards. And yes, never date a non-christian. The Bible clearly states that we should not be unequally yoked with un-believers. Thanks for listening though, alot of people have a hard time doing that. I'm glad you chose to go that way.
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Old 02-05-2005, 12:56 PM   #18
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Hi guys im dating a non-christian, she is wondful to me she understands what it is all bout she come to my church every now and then. but other people say is not good to date non-christians is that true
I'd be careful making admissions like that around here - people are likely to burn you at the stake.

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Taking the year off to not date is a great idea. Between my 15th and 16th year of life I made that commitment.
I had that choice made for me by default - nobody was interested in dating me. In fact, they're still not. I finally gave up and resigned myself to the fate that has befallen my lot.
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