[Sacredhands]

ok, here's the thing, there is thais girl( Elisha ) and im crazy about her and she likes me too. i want to ask her out , but i don't want our good, friendly relationship to change into something weird, in a bad way. if u know wat i mean? cuz u got to have friends, but i want to be more than friends. if she says no or if we go out and then she decides to break up, i don't want her to act weird around me because she knows i like her. i don't know wat to do.
Can someone help me out with suggestions or tips?

[botruckin]

first of all how long have you known her? how old are you? I definately wouldn't throw away a friendship for a relationship with her. Me and my g/f promised that if we break up we will still be friends, she also made that promise with her last b/f.(which she dated for 2 years and broke they broke up about a year ago) They are really good friends, it may seem weird after they dated and stuff but me and him are good friends too. I won't throw away a friendship for a girl, as a matter of fact we told each other that if our relationship started messing up other friendships and made us start losing our friendship that we would go back to being just friends, it would be hard for me to do that but I know that it's what would be best. So, you have to think about the future too, not just about what you are feeling or think that you are feeling right now!

[Chris]

Well, it'd definitely be a lot easier to give advice if we knew some other general information age, how long you've known her, how long you've liked her, both Christian? Just some general things. I know it may sound weird but it really does make a difference.