| Its a good question you asked! I'm anxious to get over my ex. But I know the more I rush it, the longer I will take. It sucks, because by conventional theory it will take me a year! It sounds about right too! I have asked people and they have all told me differing time spans. I say, give time out of respect for what you guys had/have (friendship, companionship, etc), out of respect for her (her feelings etc) and also for yourself (your feelings and also personal development and growth). This should be at least three months if not more. After that, I say, do it when you feel ready and only you will know.
All in all, it sounds like you have coped well through this, which is good!!! Be happy that you feel this way and enjoy what you have at the moment. Cheers. |