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Old 12-24-2004, 01:46 PM   #16
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Well I didn't really feel like reading everyone elses responses. (no Affense to you guys, I am just lazy and dont like to ready alot.) lol. But My opinion if you guys are like really good friends, Are you sure you'd want to ruin that? I know one of my best guy friends kinda turned on me about a year ago and we haven' been the same ever since, cuz I didn't like him that way. you do know that God isn't going to send you your wife or husband now. But there is nothing wrong with haveing Bf or GF. Just dont get to serious. For what its worth you have been a great friend to me and I think if she turns you down, then she is crazy. So I'd say go for it and ask her. Just once you two are hooked up dont get to involved.

Welp Sorry If I wasn't any help.

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Old 12-24-2004, 02:53 PM   #17
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It's really a plain and simple answer. If you don't feel comfortable or safe asking the girl straight up how she feels about you, then it's apparent that you haven't reached a level of maturity that is needed for being in a relationship in the first place. Because if you were at that maturity level, and if she was too, then you could ask her and you'd both be grown up enough to not let it phase you and maintain a friendship, no matter the answer. If she said "yes, I like you too" and you're mature, you could handle it. If she said, "no, sorry, I don't feel the same way" and you're mature, you could handle it. But I think it's obvious, since you asked, that you're not mature enough in the first place and you still have some growing up to do. So be patient. Be friends. And focus on becoming who you are before you go figuring out who someone else is first.
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Old 12-24-2004, 06:37 PM   #18
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thanks amanda. yea i guess thats ture since one of my freinds ask a girl they havent been as close anymore. so i dont want that. ok thanks for your help.
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Old 12-25-2004, 11:26 AM   #19
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I agree.

Ask her friends if and only if you want to portray a 4th - 6th grade maturity.

If the friends fail, go with the note with "Check Yes or No"...

And to escape the cheapness...just ask her...

Talking it out, guy to girl will escape a lot of unneeded pressures.
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Old 12-25-2004, 08:27 PM   #20
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I see you're 16. My advice don't be in any rush whatsoever. At 16 you're at a point where you can't get serious with a girl even if you wanted to. You're still in highschool. Don't jump the gun. It's better at both your guys age to just take it easy. In highschool your emotions and crap can be all over the place. Trust me, been there done that.
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Old 12-25-2004, 08:29 PM   #21
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Hey,

Well I didn't really feel like reading everyone elses responses. (no Affense to you guys, I am just lazy and dont like to ready alot.) lol. But My opinion if you guys are like really good friends, Are you sure you'd want to ruin that? I know one of my best guy friends kinda turned on me about a year ago and we haven' been the same ever since, cuz I didn't like him that way. you do know that God isn't going to send you your wife or husband now. But there is nothing wrong with haveing Bf or GF. Just dont get to serious. For what its worth you have been a great friend to me and I think if she turns you down, then she is crazy. So I'd say go for it and ask her. Just once you two are hooked up dont get to involved.

Welp Sorry If I wasn't any help.

you friend.
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...go for a relationship but don't get involved? ... That makes my head spin.
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Old 12-27-2004, 02:26 PM   #22
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So I'd say go for it and ask her. Just once you two are hooked up dont get to involved.
Here is my question. If they want a relationship, but don't want to get "too involved," then what is the point of even labeling that relationship as a boy-friend/girl-friend relationship? What advantages does a constricted, uninvolved, limited romantic relationship offer over just being friends?
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What advantages does a constricted, uninvolved, limited romantic relationship offer over just being friends?
Excellent point.
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Old 01-05-2005, 02:25 PM   #24
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Excellent point.
ok just to let all of you know this whole thing is over, and btw you get a lot more hugs if you are just friend.
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