[BillSPrestonEsq]

Originally Posted by konadude

ok man, i told you the answer and that i wasn't gonna ask her out. this is the end of the conversation. thanks for you trying to help, although i could have asked my little brother and he would have listened better than you, but..... thanks anyway. (i don't want to get anything started, but i was just stating a fact.) i am closing this thread with this post.

Look, I wanted to emphasize that because it is critically important in all relationships of your life. You need to learn how to show love to people, and not use them. What you described was using, not loving.

I thought it was critical that you see it. Please don't be rude to me as you have been. As an SMod, closing a thread does not shut me up. I can still post.

Now, I wanted you to realize that, because without correction, that view will hijack your future relationships.