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Originally Posted by Awzmgd117 what i was struggle with when people ask me how i feel about homeschooling is the social bubble it creates. i was homeschooled at a young age, so it wasn't relevant to me, but i had friends later, who were homeschooled throughout high school. i always understood how they liked to have all the free time, i was always one with what i called wasted time in high school, where teachers taught concepts slow enough for everyone to catch on when i got it right away and was ready to move on. but at the same time, the kids who were homeschooled, were always a bit, odd. they really had no concept of pop culture or what was going on in the world. in short they lived in a bubble. i didnt think this was good.
so, i thought i'd see if you had anythoughts on how to rectify this situation. its something i haven't seemed to find an answer too. i mean i know there is social outlets for hs kids, but they are with other isolated hs kids. did you find this to be true, or if not what did you do different |
Alright, I think I'm ready to tackle this.
I think there are a few sub-questions that I can infer and answer that will lead to a good overall answer.
First, is it more important to develop social and cultural knowledge or academic knowledge? More accurately, which is it more important to learn from school?
I think it's clear that school exists for academic education. Now, some degree of cultural and social development is certainly important, but I think in the school system (be it homeschool or public school) cultural and social development should take a back seat to academic development, at least in K-12.
Now, assuming that social and cultural development is still important:
Where should one get their social and cultural development? Or maybe, HOW should one get it?
I think a large part of being socially and culturally "mature" is to be able to be a social and cultural critic. Simply being aware of what's going on isn't as important as being able to understand and make decisions about what's going on. From fellow students, all you're gonna get is a knowledge of what's going on. Most of the time, I don't even think you're going to get relevent knowledge of what's going on. When I think of "pop culture," I think of fassion and music and slang: none of that is really important in my min. How many kids come to school talking about REAL news?
Now, on analyzing and processing "news":
This can be taught in either public school or homeschool but it takes seriousness and discipline to have rational discussions about social and cultural issues. I think it's much easier to provide seriousness and discipline in a homeschooling context.
You don't even have to specifically talk about the news. My college professors make a big deal about reading the newspapers but I think general critical thinking skills are more important. Someone who knows how to think critically will have a mind that is naturally more able to process news than an untrained, uncritical mind.
I really don't think public school does a good job of teaching critical thinking, so really I think homeschool BETTER prepares a student for processing and analyzing social and cultural information.
Well, what about "pop culture"?
Again, you may be odd and look like a dork if you don't understand pop culture but how much harm will it really do to you?
Even assuming it's extremely harmful to not understand pop culture, pop culture can be picked up from other sources than school. Actually, it seems a little crazy to me to try to draw so much from school. I see school as a place of education, not of learning pop culture. Why not just pay attention to people? You'd be surprised what you can discover.
(A more specific definition of pop culture would be immensely helpful.)
Ok, but you don't want to be isolated from the "real world," do you?
Certainly not. But, as I've talked about before, I don't think public school is the "real world." I think it sets up a lot of artificial interaction and culture. Things that are important to your average jr. higher or highschooler and not often to important in the "real world." Also, as I've said before, the interaction in public school is not representative of interaction in the "real world."
That said, what do we conclude?
We conclude:
1. Academic education is more important than social and cultural development but that social and cultural development are important.
2. Social and cultural development require a knowledge of real news, not of fassion, slang, or music.
3. Social and cultural development require the ability to think critically.
4. Critical thinking is difficult to develop in an ordinary public school environment because of a lack of seriousness and discipline.
5. Social and cultural development is as easy, if not easier, in homeschool.
After re-reading your question, I see that I've missed a few points. Let me go through a little bit of personal experience and thought to try to answer those points.
On different kinds of interaction:
Public school is an entirely age-based system; the real world is not. I think this is a serious problem that actually leaves public schoolers a bit "sheltered." I've learned (or at least would like to think I have) how to relate to people of all ages because I have experience with people of all ages. I have friends that are as much as 6 or 7 years younger than me and as much as 15 years older than me. Now, I'm not saying these are traditional types of friendships but I think the traditional view of friendship is also bunk. "Traditional friendship," like public schooling, is very much age-based. I think this is actually set up a lot in public schools. People don't learn how to relate to younger or older people. They're actually "taught" to look down on younger people and admire older people based on no other quality than their age.
I think homeschooling gives better opportunities to learn to interact with different types of people because of the time available and because you aren't stuck in a group of a bunch (even up to a thousand or more at some schools) of people that are the same age as you.
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i mean i know there is social outlets for hs kids, but they are with other isolated hs kids. did you find this to be true, or if not what did you do different
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Ok, I see what you're saying here. Homeschoolers socialization but with other sheltered homeschoolers so how does it really help anything?
I think homeschoolers who have learned critical thinking can gain a great deal by interacting with each other. Self-examination and examination of the "real world" is a vital part of life. I think homeschoolers tend to do more of this than public schoolers do. (Blanket statement, I know.)
Home schoolers do not HAVE to be isolated and sheltered either. In some ways I was but in most ways, I was not. Through interactions at church and other activities, I got a chance to see what people were like and apply some of that to myself.
Now, I will freely admit that I got a shock when I started going to Loyola. I had this strange though in my head that people paying thousands of dollars for their education would be serious about it and that somehow that seriousness would translate to morality.

I was wrong. However, I think I've learned how to "fit in" (not in a sense of becoming like the group but in a sense of finding my place and behaving as I should in such a situation) rather quickly because of my critical thinking skills. I think I know how to examine different cultural, social and ethical ideas. I can look at what I see around me and decide what I should do about it. This, I think, is what social and cultural development is all about.
I will do some more thinking about how to bring about such social and cultural development but for now... that's all folks.