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Old 11-23-2004, 02:27 PM   #31
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Proverbs 27:5
Open rebuke is better than secret love.

I think there are a lot of sides to the issue, but to be blunt,

Song of Solomon 2:7
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

Song of Solomon 3:5
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

Song of Solomon 8:4
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

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Old 11-23-2004, 02:38 PM   #32
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It sounds to me like what you're saying here is that you want her to want you. It's a perfectly "natural" feeling but not all "natural" feelings are good/beneficial. Sometimes it's better to conceal feelings and not act on them.

Proverbs 29:11
A fool vents all his feelings,
But a wise man holds them back.

If you're not ready for a relationship, then I think the wise thing to do is to hold back your feelings for her, even though it won't be easy.
thanx man. your right, i guess i do want her to want me but i should hold that one back too. thanks for that verse too it helps but nobody calls me a fool ang get away with it. jk lol. it was funny at the time but thanx for laughing with me lol.

By the way ill see her tonight at drama please pray for me.
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Old 11-23-2004, 02:39 PM   #33
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thanx man. your right, i guess i do want her to want me but i should hold that one back too. thanks for that verse too it helps but nobody calls me a fool ang get away with it. jk lol. it was funny at the time but thanx for laughing with me lol.
And laugh I did.
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Will do. May the grace of God be with you. (Call that a Christian version of "good luck" )
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Old 11-23-2004, 02:41 PM   #34
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yet also...

Proverbs 27:5
Open rebuke is better than secret love.

I think there are a lot of sides to the issue, but to be blunt,

Song of Solomon 2:7
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

Song of Solomon 3:5
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

Song of Solomon 8:4
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.
i get it even though im not a daughter of jerusalem not even a son of jerusalem lol. you should not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. but how do you know it has awakened so to speak.
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Old 11-23-2004, 02:51 PM   #35
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And laugh I did.

Will do. May the grace of God be with you. (Call that a Christian version of "good luck" )
Thanks man For the laughing too.
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Old 11-23-2004, 03:22 PM   #36
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i get it even though im not a daughter of jerusalem not even a son of jerusalem lol. you should not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. but how do you know it has awakened so to speak.

read te end of song of solomon. It addresses things primarily in a feminine form, but, until you are ready to do something with the "awakened love" (aka get married) You shouldn't be stirring up romantic feelings.
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Old 11-23-2004, 03:34 PM   #37
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read te end of song of solomon. It addresses things primarily in a feminine form, but, until you are ready to do something with the "awakened love" (aka get married) You shouldn't be stirring up romantic feelings.
Hey ill read that thanks. i think ive read it before but i didnt really pay to much attention to it. So ot s all cool to still be her friend and care for her as a friend right?

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Old 11-23-2004, 04:13 PM   #38
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By the way Tag youre all it now.lol

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Old 11-24-2004, 09:50 AM   #39
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sorry for the bunny trails all, but back into this threads subject ok. ok.

Sooo i had drama last night and i didnt really talk about what i wanted to open up about, but she is treating me a whole lot better than last week. She actually came up to me and wantet dto talk about stuff . it was cool at the start she seemed realy happy then at the end she was really sad and she kept looking over her shoulder at me. then when i left i told her bye. and she got really quiet and even sadder.

I used to write songs about her and her sister helped me on one of them so naturally i gave her one( the sister not the one i like) I dont know if "cc"(the girl i like) even read it. but her sister keeps hinting on it and that i should make music vidoes for them and give them to her (cc). her dad read it and was like woah dude this is awesome has CC seen it. her mom almost started cryin. if yall want i can post it later so u can see. maby tell me y they were like that?

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Old 11-25-2004, 09:18 AM   #40
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Happy Thanksgiving All. Hope you enjoy your day. thanks sooo much.
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Old 11-29-2004, 01:13 PM   #41
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Well hi all been talkin to my self for a while now havent i
ohh yess my presiousss for a longzesss time oh yesss.
well il bee seein her tonight let you all know how it goes.

bye bye my friends
bye presioussesss friendsss
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Old 11-29-2004, 01:52 PM   #42
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sorry for the bunny trails all, but back into this threads subject ok. ok.

Sooo i had drama last night and i didnt really talk about what i wanted to open up about, but she is treating me a whole lot better than last week. She actually came up to me and wantet dto talk about stuff . it was cool at the start she seemed realy happy then at the end she was really sad and she kept looking over her shoulder at me. then when i left i told her bye. and she got really quiet and even sadder.

I used to write songs about her and her sister helped me on one of them so naturally i gave her one( the sister not the one i like) I dont know if "cc"(the girl i like) even read it. but her sister keeps hinting on it and that i should make music vidoes for them and give them to her (cc). her dad read it and was like woah dude this is awesome has CC seen it. her mom almost started cryin. if yall want i can post it later so u can see. maby tell me y they were like that?

Later
post the song bro, id like to see it
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Old 12-01-2004, 10:21 AM   #43
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Ok here is a song.

This Love


They say seek and you’ll find
But you gotta take your time
So I looked and I sought
But it all was for naught



Then I looked into your eyes
And you looked into mine
Now I’ve put you in my heart
You know I loved you from the start

There can never be an end
We can always start again
I will never say goodbye
Until the day that I die



Yeah I know I’ll never be
Someone like Prince Charming
But until the day I am
Won’t you please take my hand


You said crushes come and go
This aint no crush now I know
And if this love was meant to be
Then this love will set us free



They say seek and you’ll find
But you gotta take your time
So I looked and I sought
But it all was for naught



Then I looked into your eyes
And you looked into mine
Now I’ve put you in my heart
You know I loved you from the start



This love I’ll never break
This is a promise that I make
This love I’ll never break
This is a promise that I make


there ya have it k.
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