A little help?

DJ Kirby · 10-11-2004, 09:25 PM

Ok. there's this girl that told me she liked me but i have no interest in her. What do i say to her? anyone?

.........got "accidentally in love" by the counting crows stuck in my head........
Weird.........

Gott ist kühl · 10-11-2004, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by DJ Kirby

Ok. there's this girl that told me she liked me but i have no interest in her. What do i say to her? anyone?

.........got "accidentally in love" by the counting crows stuck in my head........
Weird.........

This should probably be in the Advice forum.

Tell her you don't have an interest in her, but don't be mean.

Electra · 10-11-2004, 09:30 PM

That or you could just say that you would like to just be her friend, but if you don't want to you could say that you're flattered but no thanks. I had a guy do that to me once, never met him in my life and just told him that no, that was nice of him, but no.

DJ Kirby · 10-11-2004, 09:33 PM

feel free to im me on this......makes it faster........just tell me ur from CGR

Jonular · 10-11-2004, 11:54 PM

Moving to the advice forum...

~Jon

Chris · 10-12-2004, 01:06 AM

you're just going to have to tell her that you're not interested in a relationship at this point. There's no real two ways about it.

**bread man** · 10-12-2004, 04:01 AM

It's a hard thing to do...when I was a young lad (about 10), this girl who was about 11 or 12 was interested in me. I kept telling her that I wasn't interested but she wouldn't take no for an answer, so I finally gave in and "went out" with her. Worst mistake ever...

I then did it again when I was 14...I liked another girl at the time (the same girl I like now actually), this really lovely girl asked me out, she was a very nice person, but I wasn't at all attracted to her and I didn't want a relationship at such a young age...but because she was such a nice person I said yes as to not hurt her feelings...I ended up hurting her even more when she found out that I didn't actually want to be going out with her.

SilverNitrate · 10-12-2004, 02:32 PM

If you don't like her, tell her. Why keep her holding on to you for no reason? She could be finding someone else to be interested in rather than wasting her time waiting for something that's not going to happen.

Iolakana · 10-23-2004, 11:34 PM

I agree w/ the others... tell her kindly that you don't like her... but do you like her as a friend?? If you do, then tell her that you would like to be friends with her, and maybe hang out or talk on the phone occasionally just as buddies. It'll help the pain. good luck!

danalyn · 10-24-2004, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by DJ Kirby

Ok. there's this girl that told me she liked me but i have no interest in her. What do i say to her? anyone?

there is NO way to do this without hurting her. just be honest and be as gentle as possible...

Cinster · 10-24-2004, 09:14 AM

You definitely have to tell her you don't like her, but you have to be as nice as possible. When girls go out on a limb to tell boys they like them. . generally we think they like us back and that's why we ask. (We girlies like to be asked out not to be the ones doing the asking.,. . . . generally, butnot all girls are like this). She probably asked you thinking that you already liked her so she thought she wouldn't get rejected. But you have to tell her, you can't keep her guessing because that will hurt even more in the end. And if you are going to say something like this, "I don't like you but we can still be friends." Rephrase that because to a girl those words can be death! You don't know how many little 13, 14, 15, and even 16 and 17 year old girls I have spent time comforting and mentoring that have had that told to them and they felt like the worst people in the world. (still don't know why 'Idon't like you but we can still be friends' is such a bad thing, personally it would make me happy to still be friends with someone). Anyway, just thought I would throw that in there. Later days!!

~::Cin::~