so confused help

eagles04 · 10-10-2004, 03:08 PM

this kid that i like tells me that hes not attractive to me , but he shows off all the time when i am visting his grandma. whats up w/ him . dont know what to think about this. help me .......

***BillSPrestonEsq*** · 10-10-2004, 03:48 PM

Give up on this guy already!

tht00 · 10-10-2004, 04:00 PM

then respect what he says. you can't force someone to like you/ be attracted to you. if he isn't interested in a serious relationship, then move on.

my 2 cents,
Tom

doulos777 · 10-10-2004, 04:37 PM

How old is this kid?

And how old are you?

***BillSPrestonEsq*** · 10-10-2004, 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by doulos777

How old is this kid?

And how old are you?

for more background, do a quick search on the threads she has started. It will reveal a lot, not in this post, but a heck of a lot of background.

Living Sacrifice · 10-10-2004, 05:28 PM

I just did a search for her posts, I think every one of her posts (33) has been about this guy.

I understand where you're coming from, but If he says he just wants to be friends, you need to honor that, and do your best to be his friend. Keep hope for the future, but for now just be his friend. If he's not ready for a relationship with you, don't wait for him until he is (which could possibly never come). If you do wait, you'll be missing out on a lot of chances to be with another guy that you might like even more, but you just don't know it yet.

ChrisHarbison · 10-10-2004, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by eagles04

this kid that i like tells me that hes not attractive to me , but he shows off all the time when i am visting his grandma. whats up w/ him . dont know what to think about this. help me .......

I realize that I may have sounded rude, and I assure you I wasn't trying to. I would strongly urge you to hear what your friend says and respect it.