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Old 09-30-2004, 07:13 PM   #1
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Ha , is this so weird that u have a lot in common w/ someone that you like but the funny thing is that the other person dont feel the same way that you do about that person but only wants to be friends w/ you.

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Having lots in common w/someone is a great reason to be friends. I take it you wish to be more than friends. It all starts with being just friends so be this persons friend. Work from there. Pray. A few more details may help.

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You simply can't force somebody into a relationship farther than they want to go. If you do too much or are overly agressive, you're only going to end up creating awkward situations and repelling them. Just go with the flow.
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ya know, quit obsessing over this guy. Its the same thread every week or so. It happens, but you may never change him. Don't make him your focus. If you are 10% as aggressive as you seem in the threads, if I was him, I would be rather alarmed.

The woman I love is not my friend I had everything in common with. Being too similar makes you somewhat boring to another person sometimes. Calm down, be content and leave this guy alone.
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how long should i wait for him ? But if i do move on to someone new , will he be mad ??
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how long should i wait for him ? But if i do move on to someone new , will he be mad ??
"but the funny thing is that the other person dont feel the same way that you do about that person but only wants to be friends w/ you."

Why would a friend get mad if you 'moved on to someone else' he doesn't feel the same way, I doubt he would mind.
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He may be mad, but he only wants to be friends remember? If he is a true friend then he will understand. Or he may realize what he may lose. God has it all figured out and if you pray to Him he will lead you.

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how long should i wait for him ? But if i do move on to someone new , will he be mad ??
You should stop worrying about him, go to God and wait on God to bring you where He wants you.

I think it would be quite disturbing if everyone you had things in common with liked you so no, it's not weird that he doesn't. It's also not important. Marriage is not the purpose of life, God is.
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how long should i wait for him ? But if i do move on to someone new , will he be mad ??
Don't wait for him! He's told you time and time and time again that he's uninterested in you. No offense, but for heaven's sake take a hint. I'm with Bill, stop obsessing over this guy. If he is angry (and I honestly can't say that I'd blame him), it's probably because you won't respect him enough to listen to what he says. Now, I'm moving this thread to General Discussion (again) since it has nothing to do with advice. We certainly want people to ask for advice here, but you're not asking for advice. You keep starting new threads to whine about the same guy over and over again.

I apologize for seeming mean and being so blunt, but you really need to understand this. I'm telling you the truth.
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Why are you posting questions that you don't want to hear the answers to? Go to God, He has everything under control and it's all worked out. Go to the One who knows your future, and holds it in the palm of His hands.

Also, I'd suggest just being friends with the guy. If he says he's not interested, he's not interested. Guys don't give mixed signals like some girls do.
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It would appear that this doesn't belong in general discussion either.

Closed it is.
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