Is it right

ChrisHarbison · 09-26-2004, 12:18 AM

I'm with everyone else. I'm not trying to be rude, but isn't the answer to this question so blatantly obvious that asking the question is completely unnecessary? Of course you shouldn't help someone be dishonest and unfaithful. If she hates her boyfriend, then she alone needs to break it off with the guy. If she came onto you, then you need to be the bigger man and say, "you have a boyfriend, I'm not going to support this dishonestly and unfaithfulness."

Astonished · 09-26-2004, 07:27 AM

I know, all you guys are right. I knew the answer, I just needed to here it cause I feel so alone cause there is nobody who I can talk to about this, not even my parents, i would talk to my friends if it were possible but thats not an option right now. Thank you, I know what I have to do and I will do it. Sometimes I wonder, I was truly happy before this happened and like always, as soon as I'm happy with the way everything is, everything changes. Sometimes, I wonder why God keeps doing this to me.

Maru · 09-26-2004, 09:08 AM

If you tell her that you do not want to help her cheat, then she might go and just break up with her current boyfriend(girls/guys are wierd like that).

Suppose you do tell her that, and she does break up with her boyfriend. Give it some time with her. I suppose you already knew that you should do that, but do not jump the gun right away!

ChrisHarbison · 09-26-2004, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Astonished

I know, all you guys are right. I knew the answer, I just needed to here it cause I feel so alone cause there is nobody who I can talk to about this, not even my parents, i would talk to my friends if it were possible but thats not an option right now. Thank you, I know what I have to do and I will do it.

I'm glad you're making the right decision. A truly wise person heeds the advice and warnings of others, and you've proven yourself wise.

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Originally Posted by Astonished

Sometimes I wonder, I was truly happy before this happened and like always, as soon as I'm happy with the way everything is, everything changes. Sometimes, I wonder why God keeps doing this to me.

Welcome to life in the real world.

Astonished · 09-26-2004, 10:59 AM

To add another problem, she's a really good friend and I see her all the time cause she's in my dorm.

Shredcheddar · 09-26-2004, 11:18 AM

Then be a really good friend to her. Just because you see her all the time doesn't mean you have to be going out or anything. I really don't get how this is a problem, besides the inevitable awkwardness of your encounters. Just be a friend.

Tony · 09-26-2004, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Shredcheddar

Then be a really good friend to her. Just because you see her all the time doesn't mean you have to be going out or anything. I really don't get how this is a problem, besides the inevitable awkwardness of your encounters. Just be a friend.

been there, and it's worth the effort to be a good friend.