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Old 09-22-2004, 05:57 PM   #1
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typical love..etc

okay...so this is gonna sound completely typical....in love with a girl etc....okay...so...story goes like this....two years ago at a music thing for school I was in minneapolis and I met a girl from rapid city south dakota....I imediately fell for her...but never dated because distance and such...we;ve been pretty close friends since...considering the distance...but there hasn't been a day since we met that I haven't been think about her...and I'm completely crazy for her....in fact I know for sure that she is the person that I want to spend my life with...like...awesome christian...amazingly fun the spend time with...sings...plays piano...does a lot of christian volunteer work....I'm just mad about her...and I've reallyy been thinking...that unless I act now I may never get a chance with her.....so....before considering moving about 20 hours away from home for a girl....I want to get some advice of thigns to consider, opinions and all that other stuff...

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Old 09-22-2004, 06:23 PM   #2
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This sounds like infatuation. I want you to slow down, and calmly explain to the best of your abilities, why it is not infatuation.

Also how old are you?
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Old 09-23-2004, 05:00 AM   #3
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suggestion: if it's God's will and she's "the one" then how is He not able to work things out if you don't act immediately? why must you act now or lose the perfect woman? why so imminent?
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Old 09-28-2004, 08:56 AM   #4
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The only thing I can really say about this is to watch out, I've seen this scenario with friends of mine before. The reason you probably "love" this girl, is because you see her very little. So when you do get to see her it's a stronger feeling towards her than towards someone you see everyday. I don't want to sound mean, but that's common sense. I would stop and think about what you are doing, because there is a better that average chance you're cruising for a bruising, because this sounds a lot like infatuation, which after a while goes away and you'll be stuck empty handed.
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Old 09-28-2004, 08:51 PM   #5
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Good advice guys. CB, the last thing you want to do is lose your head and rush into things. That only gets you into trouble. I've seen it happen in my friends relationships and its not good. How old are you and how old is she?
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