I need help.

j0s1ah · 09-16-2004, 08:40 PM

you hang with alot of chicks.
the truth shall set you free...usually

Shredcheddar · 09-16-2004, 10:13 PM

Hey man, if you like being around her, tell her that. If you want her to know that you think she's special, then go ahead and tell her. There ain't no special magic formula as to what you should say, really. She's not going to be repelled by it; at worst she'll be flattered. And stop thinking that she's going to perceive you to be an idiot. If you're friends, she shouldn't be assuming things about you anyways... and you should get past this.

Some advice for highschool, though: don't get super wrapped-up with romance and relationships to the point where you're frantic about who you're going to ask to homecoming three months before it happens, or that you're going crazy because you don't have a date for Friday night or whatever. Just don't take yourself too seriously, and as impossible as it sounds, enjoy your four years. Just lighten up and have fun

Peace,
Travis

Spazzy McGee · 09-17-2004, 04:54 PM

At the end of school i waited after P.E. to ask her. the bell rang 5minutes before so i gave up and started to walk away when alex yelled for me. i looked behind me and there was casey! alex told me to walk with her because she was feeling dizzy. i baught her a thing of water from a vending machine and made sure she sat down for a while.

RIGHT THERE I HAD THE CHANCE!!!!!

we talked and she told me she wasnt feeling a little depressed and i told her she was looking a little glum. she smiled and looked away. i asked why but she changed the subject. we talked for five minutes and then she left she said bye and me too. i knew i had to ask her. she walked and looked back for a second. walked a little ways scratching my head. she looked back a gain then headed up some stairs. i walked towards her but lost my nerve. she stoped to talk to a friend i tried again but lost my nerve. then she rounded the corner and was gone. she was waiting for me to ask her im sure. im know what i have to do. i asked my brother he said the best words a person could say at that time. ''Dude this is your time." "It may not come again."

And with those words i ask her on monday!.

Spazzy McGee · 09-20-2004, 07:38 PM

Here i go, I ask her tommarow. I baught a yellow rose which means friendship and im going to ask her at lunch. Hopefully it will pay off. want to know the crazy thing i started talking to this lady at the check out line. we talked for little bit she asked who it was for i said this girl i know named casey. she said thats my daughters name. i asked her what is your last name. she told me wiliams. in a split second i bowed and introduced myself. i said to her ma'am
the girl i am going to ask to the dance is your daughter and i feel compeled to ask for your permission. she said to me calmly i never expected such a chivalrous young man! you certainly have my permission, your what i hoped for and even more. i know i dont have to say this but don't disrespect her. i told her yes ma'am never will i be so stupid. she smiled and said i hope she says yes and belive me i really hope she says yes.

So tomarrow i ask her if she says no at least we're still friends!!
Ill tell you guys what happens tomarrow after school.

Shredcheddar · 09-20-2004, 09:05 PM

Wow, there's a plot. This high-schooler drama is more interesting than I thought. The suspense eats away at me

No but seriously, good luck to you, hope you guys have a good time.

Spazzy McGee · 09-26-2004, 06:46 PM

9/24/04 I walk to see her. i find her and i have 10 minutes before the bell rings. i start to walk up to her and then i freeze some S.O.B. walks up and asks her 8 feet away from her. i didnt know what to do. karrisa says "hi." I just stood there. For those thirty seconds the hole world goes black. when i came back i took two steps back and ran away. in my third period class my friend and casey's friend kelly tells me she was asked to go to the dance. all i could do was look at my worksheet while a single tear roled down my face. she asked me whats wrong and i knew that if i tried to speak i'd cry so i didnt say anything. at lunch i sat with my back leaned up against a tree and let myself just drift away out into the cloudy blue sky. one of her friends told her i was going to ask her. when she came to me to talk about it she told my that casey was stunned when she heard. i couldnt help but think if she only waited but then shunned that thought away. so after school i told casey how i felt and asked her to the dance but she said she already had a date. so i walked away. hurt but i hoped i'd recover. my friend who is a total freak and never has anything good to say told me if you truely deeply love her youll let her go and you never know she may decide she always liked you first. so ill just keep breathing, waiting for that day to come even though it probably wont. thanks for all your guyses help. i guess this isnt what god wants right now so ill just try to do what he wants for the time being.

thanks again

god bless

spazzy out.

ChrisHarbison · 09-27-2004, 01:29 AM

Oh young padawan, you have much to learn of of the female mind.

First of all, this is as good as it gets...well, it improves, but the mind games will never go away. This is a classic example of why women have a psychology class all to themselves (the Psychology of Women, yes, it's a real class, I almost took it in college

). You see, the girl tells you she just wants to be friends, then when you don't pursue but give her what she said she wants, she gets hurt. What she really wanted was for you to ask her all along. My guess is that she actually likes you and is playing that stupid hard to get game. Girls do it all the time, so get used to it.

As far as this particular girl goes and this particular dance, don't sweat it. Yeah it hurts, I understand, I've been there myself when I was in highschool; but you're young and you have many opportunities ahead of you. So learn from this. When the next girl comes along that you're interested in, take the chance and ask her out if you're feeling that mutual vibe from her. They may play the dumb games, but you'll learn how to play back.

SilverNitrate · 09-27-2004, 02:57 AM

Yeah dude, sorry to hear it... but... I think you're better off. I mean, you tell her you like her... right? Then she tells you that she just wants to be friends... right? You act as a friend would... right? Then she wants you to ask her to the dance?

???WHAT??? Seriously, if she wants to play that stupid game, let her play it... just make sure you don't play too. This drives me nuts! It happens all the time... then the guy is made to look like an insensitive jerk because he couldn't read the girl's mind. If she liked you and wanted to go to the dance with you, then she should've said something (seeing as how she had already told you that she just wanted to be friends). Seriously, I think you'd do good just to be friends with this girl... and leave it at that. She had her chance... she blew it... not you.