Life is nuts. Ever wonder why some things happen and some things don't? Or why you feel a certain way and you know you shouldn't? I do. I wonder all the time. Then I have to make a konshus choice to ask "why" and "is it right" and "what can I now do to change it". I'm pretty mad right now.
Today, I saw my mum and dad. (They are over for the weekend (from Port Lincoln where I used to live) for a wedding.) Mum and I went into the city and spent most of our time at Koorong (Christian Bookstore). We spent about a gazillion dollars on stuff... books mainly. I got a some cd's for my brother and a book called "The Journals of Jim Elliot" which I'm going to send to a friend (after I've finished reading it... I'm actually considering getting my own copy. It's heaps good!).
When I said that
I got cd's and books ... Mum actually paid for them. She wouldn't let me. Then she tells me that money's pretty tight for them right now and it makes me feel bad but she wont take anything (cos I'm a student at Tabor I get a 15% discount, so she thought that was nice enough of me!!). I got a little green Larry Boy t-shirt which is pretty exciting! My birthday is soon and I'm getting a Superman t-shirt too! It's rad.
We then skedaddled from the city to Blackwood (which is near where I live) to the hairdressers. They were doing this deal where you get a colour and pay an extra dollar for the haircut. My hair turned out wicked, but the ... ahhem... silly lady who did mum's hair seriously should have been blonde! Mum said she wanted like a brown and then blondish streaks over the top. The daft (can I say anything more without being really really mean) lady just did the blonde. Mum's already got grey hair so the blonde did ZIPPO! I was sooooo angry! What a waste of blooming $39!!!!!!! Mine was $64 cos I got a million colours put in. Cant say as I'll be doing it again any time soon... I'm just really angry cos Mum's hair... nothings changed. (This is why I am mad.)
Now we are home for tea and then Glenda (mum's cousin, who I live with), Mum and I are going back into the city to watch "How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days". It's a chick flick and I'm not expecting it to be a movie to rave about (like Emperor's New Groove) but it'll be fun to watch with the old ducks and listen to them reminice about old times. So much fun.

Seriously!
I remember one time Glenda told me a story of when Mum was newly married and they were going to my auntie's hens night. The party was over and Mum was driving Glenda back to her house in a LandRover (the greatest car in the world, by the way). They pulled up at the lights and some young guys, around their age pulled up next to them. The guys revved their engines and stuff... so mum did it back, as if she was asking for a drag! The lights went green and the boys sped off and the little Landy was chugging through second gear across the intersection. By this time, the guys were long gone.
Mum and Glenda then, being the ditz's that they are, decided they didn't know what way to go at the round about so they kept going around and around and around and around.
I always ask Mum to do that... but no. She's far to sensible, right? Then I hear stories like this and feel that I've been misled about my Mum my whole life!!
Let me tell you some things about my Mum:
1. She is the greatest cook in the world. (And that is not open to debate.)
2. She is so funny. I think she was blonde in a past life also.
3. She can't drive very good. She likes going
over round-abouts and onto the street from the footpath, not where the curb slopes down to accomodate a smoother transition!
4. She has had grey hair ever since she had me. Now that I've moved away, more of her former brown colour is coming through, which I think says something about me.
5. She's farted out 5 kids, plus a still born.
6. She has lived with my dad longer than I ever will.
7. She's helped us develop into the people that we are (and that also shows).
8. She loves us equally.
I could go on, but that last point was a nice one to end on, I think. She's never shown favouritism (even though we've all accused her of it). It's all unconditional, forgiving, gracious. She has taught me a whole lot. Glenda is very similar to her. Funny as well. She has taught me a lot as well.

I love them both, but only one is my Mum. I'm pretty blessed in having Mum as my Mum alone.
Tomorrow, I'm going to a wedding which I'm pretty excited about. The family we've known the groom's family since forever. We practically 'grew up' with each other cos our parents have been prayer partners since forever. Craig (who is the groom) is marrying Kerriann. They both did the same course last year that I am doing this year. At a mid-year camp, they had a mock-wedding in a play or something. They started going out in September and got engaged in January. Now it's May and they are getting married. My sister-in-law's immediate reaction to this news... "Bonnie, this could be you in a year!"
She was fully excited at the thought, but I'm not so keen. There are some nice guys in my course, but I'm fine right now by myself. I'm not totally closed off to the fact that it
could happen... I'm just not expecting it to happen any time soon. When it does happen, I want it to be a quick engagement. I hear about couples who wait for like 2 years to get married... My theory is if you know that you know, what is the point of waiting any longer? I'd like to just meet someone, get to know them, know that we know and ... 4 months later, be married. If that.
Strike! This is getting long. I'm gonna say fare the well right now and see you guys another day! I have some PM-ing to do!
PS. Thanks for visiting even if you don't read it all... it makes my blog looks like its got heaps of visitors and other people might be enticed.
I'm gonna get onto some deep stuff in the not to distant future, so if you wanna hear some sermons (hoho), stick around.
Peas - Beanie