[Superman] OK, there are two ways to determine what God deems as fair. Lets see if we can figure them out.
1. In fairness to God, He can reserve the right to mandate anything regarding everything, for He made everything and they are His. So since He is the Creator, He has every right to pick and choose anyone He wants to redeem, for all people are equal in sin, and no one can claim they have a right to salvation. We are all equal in that regard, as no one can claim they are better than another. So He has the right if, He so chooses, to select of His own decisions, based on whatever he wants, because He is the Creator. Because we see all men are not redeemed, we would have to conclude God did not want the majority of the creation He made,
[Me] I know this is a little minor, but God DID what all of creation. He just didn't predestine all men to be saved. I'm sure that you understand this but I'm just making the clarification for any other readers. Other than that, I'm agreeing totally here
[Superman] and indeed decided long before He made man that He was going to punish Him eternally in Hell, and indeed made man for that very purpose, except for the ones He made to redeem. Because we see so many are not redeemed, we have to assume God did not love everyone, or He would have saved them all. This is His right if He so chooses. But if He works in this manner, He is discriminatory, and shows partiality, but it's all arbitrary. There is no basis for it other than He can. So it's all up to Him who suffers and who lives, for He made it that way. But He would be justified in being a discriminator, since He made man to begin with. But then you have to assume that He must not love nearly everyone who ever lived, for He ultimately made 99% of mankind just to burn in Hell.
[Me] It is not arbitrary; it is based on God's foreknowledge of what will bring Him the most glory
[Superman] 2. In fairness to man, He could forgo this right and extend it to His creation. If He were to do that, it would imply He did indeed love all of His creation, all of mankind, and would mean He never intended for them to burn in Hell when He made them. It would imply that all those going to Hell have chosen to do so, because the opportunity to escape it was there. He made salvation free to all, provided you obey and abide by His wishes. That is the only way you can be saved. Failure to submit to God and turn away from whatever He said displeases Him is considered rebellious and an act of treason, and the only option left is eternal Hell. So if He truly loved all mankind and did not want them to go to Hell, He would either have to make it an opportunity for all and man is free to choose or reject it, or He has to save every single person who ever lived (see fairness #1). Again, since we see not everyone is saved, we have to assume it is because the person didnt want God, not because God didnt want the person. This, He left up to us, if He did indeed impart fairness to man and did not reserve the right to decide as Creator.
[Me] If God ultimately gives the decision to man then we are certainly in trouble, as unregenerate man
will not choose God. We would all be ****ed were it not for God's rich and generous grace which He pours upon us!
Also, let's draw a parallel. I believe that God loves all but God sends some to hell and some to heaven based on what will bring Him the most glory. You believe that God loves all but God sends some to hell and some to heaven based on what He knew they would do. In each, God sends some people to hell and some to heaven. In each, God knew
when He created who would be worthy of heaven and who would be worthy of hell. Therefore, in each, God created some for hell and some for heaven. The only question, of course, is the causal relationship here. Sin causes ****ation and human wills cause sin. Thus, in both choices the ultimate causal determinant is man.