[BillSPrestonEsq]

Originally Posted by tlj009

And IF you were to ever get married you would have stressful jobs, health problems problems with friends and family and throw kids in the mix and we are talking major stress. I don't think that you will ever get away from those type of things. So, I am not sure that it would ever get better and may get worse. I would approach it accordingly. She doesn't have time for a relationship. You can let her know how you feel. But I don't think any kind of pressure for a relationship would be beneficial for either of you. And that is exactly what "fight for her" implies. She laid it out for you. So any kind of "fight for her" would be against what she either wants or thinks is best. So I would say, let her know how you feel but leave it at that. I am not sure that rearranging your life to be closer to her is all that good of an idea.

I don't know.

My wife and I during our marriage have seldom "had time" for a relationship. You have to choose to make it a number one priority, even if that means neglecting other things a bit. Its a choice of priorities. Life will always be too hectic. The question is, is the other stuff worth the sacrifice it takes to sacrifice the relationship for.

[guitarlover4120]

talk to her and fight for her