[Pauler]

we are glad to do it as i am sure we have all been in a similar place as you...

that's what we are here for...keep talking through things...it helps

[Pre-Ex-Girlfriend]

Originally Posted by Caged Love

@Pre-Ex-Girlfriend: We haven't really talked about any personal stuff for the last month or so, but maybe I should talk to her. However, it probably won't be for a little while, I want to be sure I can handle it. I'm sure I could, but sometimes waiting for a little bit is the best thing to do. Before her and "Otherguy" started to date, I was feeling more comfortable talking with her. This has just set me back a step or two, so I'll wait a bit more before addressing my concerns to her.

Not talking about personal stuff is good, I think. You're right, if you do talk to her, you want to be sure you'll be able to handle it and sometimes time is the only thing that can get you there. Just to clarify (more for everyone else), I was suggesting you talk to her specifically about the lying she did. She may not realize how much it hurt you; she probably thought she was doing what was in your best interest.

Also, I'm glad things are getting better for you now.

[Azul]

I forgave my ex! she crushed my heart but let me tell you FORGIVENESS is true liberation!!!forgive him with all your hear and pray that God will always have the best for him!! and always wish for his happiness!!!

[BillSPrestonEsq]

Originally Posted by Azul

I forgave my ex! she crushed my heart but let me tell you FORGIVENESS is true liberation!!!forgive him with all your hear and pray that God will always have the best for him!! and always wish for his happiness!!!

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