[Rainer.]

Originally Posted by Guitarman121319

Well, if I truly love someone wouldn't I do what it takes to make it work?

Yeah, you might.

And that's honestly one of the worst things that could possibly happen. A one-sided relationship with no reciprocation is something you never want to experience.

[Guitarman121319]

I will keep that in mind.

[LesPaulPlayer]

Originally Posted by BillSPrestonEsq

I don't think age is completely a number. It is a factor. Nobody is proposing 3 year olds should date.

However, in my experience, if you have to ask, the answer is neither. I mean, girls you date are not selections on the menu. A wrong choice is actually somewhat serious, in that it will hurt you, and her. If these girls are both friends, you do not want to hurt your friends.

My suggestion is to let things be.for a while. See where things go without pressuring them. The right relationship at the wrong time will implode. My advice is to not jump into any relationship, but to let things grow on their own if they will. Besides, in 5 years you will be a different man. Think about 5 years ago. You were 9. The next 5 years bring even bigger changes in perspective than from 9-14. I know that does not seem plausible, as at 9, I was a tree climbing, watergun toting little boy, and girls had cooties.

But in the next few years an even faster level of maturation takes over. And we always think we are mature. I certainly did by age 2, but that was my perspective, and not reality. I say this as someone who is 28 and quite sure he is immature in a whole bunch of ways.

/thread.


that right there is what you need.