I think you're absolutely right, Sean. And I won't try to defend the Bachelor here, or anywhere.
This serves to demonstrate that no media choice falls outside the realm of Christian discretion, no matter how seemingly innocent, especially when compared to certain genres of film or TV.
I think every Christian is at a different place with this. We were recently convicted to stop watching
Family Guy for several reasons. Basically it boiled down to us laughing at something that happened that was incredibly disrespectful to Jesus and God, and later realizing how
not funny it was and how desensitized we were for laughing at it at the time.
I used to be a "That's what she said" master, but at the same time we decided to stop watching
Family Guy I was personally convicted to stop using that phrase. It was a result of
this teaching.