[Cruelty*free]

Dude I feel ya. Im in love myself... this will kind of be irrelevant because my situation isnt like yours but maybe sometimes we get the impression that the parents of our "loved ones" do not really like us but really it's their little girl and some parents are over protective and just not ready for us to grow up so quickly. Also if they've had a bad experience they sometimes think that we will make their same mistakes. My grandmother had my mother at like 16 and my grandmother is very opposing to my relationship but I know its not because she doesnt like him its because she thinks Im her. Not that that fixes anything but its kinda gives you a bit of perspective from the other side, sometime we have to walk in others shoes in order to really understand them. Im sorry about your situation and I can imagine how that feels but if its possible that (if the parents let you guys at least see each other) you guys can just stay friends and nothing else until her parents get used to having you around and start to develop trust...

[Hawk5]

Originally Posted by WorshipJesus

Here's how I see it.. You still have about 2 years (depending on your birthday) until you can get married, but I'm not suggesting that you get married then, lol. You're probably thinking "Married?! What are you talking about!?" But seriously look at what exclusively being with somebody is for. Is it not to see if you are compatible for marriage?

actually as werid as it may be, we've talked about marriage. we were talking one night and some how it came up and she said "so you would want to marry me?" well that caught me off gaurd lol, and i said thats a long way off, but that is why you date someone right? to find that special person. at that point i think we were the closest we've ever been (emotionally).

but anyway i saw her at church yesterday and i think we said a grand total of like 20 words to each other that was hard. and also my parents asked her parents to lunch, to talk about her and i, and they didn't accept. its hard cuz i don't know whats going through her mind, ya know.

sorry if i'm kinda rambling on, but its kinda nice to let it out alittle bit