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Old 10-05-2008, 12:29 AM   #1
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Should I talk to her?
There's a girl at my choir at college, and she seems like a very sweet, and friendly girl, not to mention quite pretty. I think I would like to get to know her, but shoud I?

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Old 10-05-2008, 12:50 AM   #2
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There's a girl at my choir at college, and she seems like a very sweet, and friendly girl, not to mention quite pretty. I think I would like to get to know her, but shoud I?
Absolutely.
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Why not?
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Why not?
Girls are scary, that's why not.

To the OP: talking is great, finding a common interest is always an easy place to start (classes, bands, etc...)
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Girls aren't scary. Guys are pansies.

Sure, make a new friend.
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Old 10-05-2008, 10:43 AM   #7
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Girls aren't scary. Guys are pansies.

Sure, make a new friend.
No, girls are scary. Guys are still pansies though.

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How are girls scary? That makes no sense. I think Jon is right.
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How are girls scary? That makes no sense. I think Jon is right.


Better question.

How are girls NOT scary? And guys are indeed pansies.
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Better question.

How are girls NOT scary? And guys are indeed pansies.
Girls are not scary because they smell nicer than boys. Girls are not scary because they are prettier than boys. Girls are not scary because they are generally kind and gentle. Girls are not scary because when they laugh at your jokes, you feel like the king of the world. Girls are not scary because their smiles can embolden you to do things you to do things you never would have expected from yourself. Girls are not scary because they will listen to you when you need to talk, and they will carry the conversation when you have nothing to say. Girls are not scary because they are fun and funny.

And mostly, girls are not scary because they are just people, with hopes and fears and strenghts and weaknesses and insecurities, trying to get through life the best they can. They are not out to get you. They do not have a magical force field. They're people, and they make the world a brighter place.

Get over yourself and grow up.
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Girls are not scary because they smell nicer than boys. Girls are not scary because they are prettier than boys. Girls are not scary because they are generally kind and gentle. Girls are not scary because when they laugh at your jokes, you feel like the king of the world. Girls are not scary because their smiles can embolden you to do things you to do things you never would have expected from yourself. Girls are not scary because they will listen to you when you need to talk, and they will carry the conversation when you have nothing to say. Girls are not scary because they are fun and funny.

And mostly, girls are not scary because they are just people, with hopes and fears and strenghts and weaknesses and insecurities, trying to get through life the best they can. They are not out to get you. They do not have a magical force field. They're people, and they make the world a brighter place.
I was just joking, but excellent points.

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Well there is an old saying that applies here "Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained" If you don't talk to her you'll never get to know her, and it will be your loss. If you do talk to her one of two things is going to happen, she will either show interest in getting to know you better, or she won't. If she shows interest you''ve got an opportunity to meet a new friend, if she doesn't show interest then you're not out anything, and you know where you stand. She might even change her mind at some later time. Don't be a wimp and ask her if she would like to get some coffee sometime, or an ice cream, etc.
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Well there is an old saying that applies here "Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained" If you don't talk to her you'll never get to know her, and it will be your loss. If you do talk to her one of two things is going to happen, she will either show interest in getting to know you better, or she won't. If she shows interest you''ve got an opportunity to meet a new friend, if she doesn't show interest then you're not out anything, and you know where you stand. She might even change her mind at some later time. Don't be a wimp and ask her if she would like to get some coffee sometime, or an ice cream, etc.


Yeah, dont be a wimp and do any of those things. Be bold and go right up to her and ask her to marry you!
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Don't be a wimp and ask her if she would like to get some coffee sometime, or an ice cream, etc.
Coffee, definitely.

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