Well then...

Cam42 · 07-02-2008, 08:42 PM

My girlfriend broke up w/ me last winter. We had nothing against each other (for the most part), just stopped talking for a while. So now she sends me this email, acting all nice and stuff, trying to be my friend and she asked me if I still liked her. While I welcome the thought of being her friend, I have no idea how to take this... help?

bobthecockroach · 07-02-2008, 08:46 PM

You have nothing against her but you accuse a friendly email of "trying to be your friend" and "acting all nice and stuff?"

**Rainer.** · 07-02-2008, 08:49 PM

Maybe she's just trying to be your friend?

mulletman · 07-02-2008, 08:59 PM

And be nice and stuff?

Ordinary Sarah · 07-02-2008, 09:04 PM

If she asked if you still liked her.... well, then maybe you should answer that with how you really feel. Sounds like maybe you have some resentment over her breaking up with you and then ending conversation altogether. Maybe you should try to talk that out with her.... sounds like she wants to.

Cam42 · 07-02-2008, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach

You have nothing against her but you accuse a friendly email of "trying to be your friend" and "acting all nice and stuff?"

I'm just confused, not mad, confused.

Cam42 · 07-02-2008, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Cam42

While I welcome the thought of being her friend

note this bit of the opening thread

bobthecockroach · 07-02-2008, 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Cam42

I'm just confused, not mad, confused.

Yet you clearly don't trust her...

Dr. Worm · 07-03-2008, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Cam42

My girlfriend broke up w/ me last winter. We had nothing against each other (for the most part), just stopped talking for a while. So now she sends me this email, acting all nice and stuff, trying to be my friend and she asked me if I still liked her. While I welcome the thought of being her friend, I have no idea how to take this... help?

First, give her the benefit of the doubt. Second, if you feel comfortable answering her question, then answer it. If you don't feel comfortable doing so, tell her. Either way, be honest with her. If you really welcome the thought of being her friend, then honesty and communication are going to go a long way.