[Nirc]

Okay, so I guess I should start from the beginning. A while ago, this girl liked me, and she started talking and flirting with me a lot and we started hanging out. As time went on, I started liking her, too, and it became pretty darn obvious to both of us that the other one liked the other one. Well, on the day that I was pretty much planning to ask her out (the night before we told each other we liked each other, but we weren't technically going out), she said she didn't like me anymore. This obviously confused me, and a week or two later she goes out with one of my best friends. This hurt quite a bit and took me about two weeks to get over, and even though my friend apologized for it (they're still going out), our relationship has never been quite the same and I certainly don't trust him as much anymore.

So now, there's this other chick that I like. A lot more. To be honest, I've sort of had a crush on her for a little over two years. It's one of those girls that's hard to find; she's Godly, she agrees with my moral stances, we get along great in conversation, we can make each other laugh, etc. Even when I thought about going out with other girls, she would always seem to enter my mind and I would wonder what she would think about it and whether she would be hurt or not. There's always been positive tension between us. Now, finally, it's become pretty clear that she likes me back, and it seems that everything is coming into place and God put the other girl in my life to lead me to her. However, there is a problem. I just learned last night that my friend likes her, too (from another friend). I plan on talking to him about it today. Now, this friend doesn't particularly share my same morals (into the whole drugs, sex, and drinking scene I suppose) as I, but he is, in truth, my best friend. I would choose a him over a girl any day, but with this particular girl it's very, very, very hard (anyone who has been in a situation where they meet this kind of girl understands, I guess, and it doesn't make it any easier that I've never had a girlfriend) to proceed with the decision and it hurts a lot. I prayed and thought about it, and my decision has stayed the same; friends always come first. I guess I didn't really come here for advice (though please share it if you have some), but to just ask you guys to pray for me. I've looked around the community and it seems you guys are pretty in-tune, so I trust you guys. Anyways, thanks.

Also, please pray for my best friend that he would accept Jesus, because he's given me both answers and I'm not certain about his faith (and I don't believe he is either).

[Gods*Armygirl]

I'll pray for both of you.
Are you saying that the friend who has a girlfriend likes her?

[Nirc]

Oh, no. Sorry, wasn't specific enough I guess lol. Nah, my best friend (the one I mentioned in the last line of my post who I'm unsure about) is the one who likes her.

[Gods*Armygirl]

Originally Posted by Nirc

Oh, no. Sorry, wasn't specific enough I guess lol. Nah, my best friend (the one I mentioned in the last line of my post who I'm unsure about) is the one who likes her.

Oh, so not the one you mentioned at the beginning. That's a relief.
I'll be praying.

[sweet345]

yea i will pray for u. I know how i feel .Anyway i am sure u will do what it best for u.I hope he does come to the lord.