Bad day

taykey · 05-13-2008, 05:42 PM

my friends (or not so) were throwing cream cheese at me. it was like mayo.

I got it all over me

and they wouldnt stop.

. And I went up to another freind cuz i wanted to hang out with her to escape the cheese, and she sorta gave me the impression that she didnt want to hang out with me so i just walked away.

.and i got hit in the head in pe with a dodge ball so hard i fell over. I almost cried, but i didnt.wow, that was kinda useless. UGH! they wouldnt stop throwing cream cheese at me!!! oh ya, and another freind(or not so) kept poking me and thasering me and i asked nicley and she wouldnt stop. later i just ignored her and she kinda kept bugging me and waiting for a response. She asked if i was okay once, and was like answer me, and i kinda feel bad. But then my realfriend, who is like the only oersin who actually likes me, came by and we walked away. then we had to go to class. then the next class and i got hit in the head so hard i fell down. i already said that tho...

anyway, i had a really bad day today.

I feel like no one likes me

. Theres only one person who im really close to who actually gives me the impression she likes me and is really nice and i really trust.

anyway.....

Gods*Armygirl · 05-13-2008, 05:48 PM

Awe. I'm sorry. *gives big hug*. Maybe you need to make new friends. I know how you feel though. *sigh*
I'm sure a lot of people like you though and you just don't know it.

Btw, I'm Rachel. How old are you?

taykey · 05-13-2008, 07:37 PM

I'm 13. Thanx 4 the hugs!! and your right, there are more people like me. But theres not many more people to be freinds with. actyally, that sounds stupid. But most of the people are "popular", and the rest aren't exactly the kind of people i'd be freinds with.

. And my friend always goes home for lunch too

...

4of5Rocker · 05-13-2008, 08:41 PM

Dude... you should talk to a teacher about this.

I'm Aaron, btw.

Gods*Armygirl · 05-13-2008, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by taykey

I'm 13. Thanx 4 the hugs!! and your right, there are more people like me. But theres not many more people to be freinds with. actyally, that sounds stupid. But most of the people are "popular", and the rest aren't exactly the kind of people i'd be freinds with.

. And my friend always goes home for lunch too

...

Ok cool.
And if your "friends" are going to treat you like this, they shouldn't have the right to be called your friends. Well I don't see why you should try to be friends with someone you don't like. "It's ok, let it go, get out there and find some more."

You can always talk to us. Oh, lol and I'm Rachel.

taykey · 05-15-2008, 07:37 PM

I think I figured out the problem. All of the people in that group of friends are most of the time really nice. except for two of them. and one of them, the one who pokes me, is most of the time, only mean to me around this one person, who is kinda a "leader"... if that makes sense. later today, the two mean ones and one other went somwhere else, and I was kinda a loner for a while,( I didnt go with them cuz I thought there were going of the school grounds and my mom wouldnt alow me) and later i saw them but didnt want to hang out with them cuz they were smearing pudding on me

. and then my freind came and we went and hung out with two other people who were involved with the cream cheese and the one who pokes me, but it was fun. they were nice to me then. I think theyre only mean to me around that one person. What do I do? Cuz I really like the rest of people from that group. they really are nice, most of the time.

taykey · 05-16-2008, 07:19 PM

Today, the one who started throwing cream cheese at me and smearing pudding on my leg decided to make beating me up a sport. Not serioulsly tho. because the one who pokes me and is only mean to me around the cream cheeese one kept punching me... and then she gave me an indian burn and it was red all through the next class. and it still hurts. and she dug her nails into my skin like right on a vein, and theres still marks on it, but you cant really notice unless you look carefully. I dont know if this is really a good thing to be proud of, but my reaction was like 2%, which does make me proud. I guess because she gets no satisfaction of seeing me squirm. But i was almost ready to cry.

The last block was so much fun tho! I laughed my head off and felt really better. so much funniness!!! wow, i didn't know that was a word...*sighs* that was fun, i love that block! maybe because the funniest people are in that class. and my good friends in that class.

taykey · 05-16-2008, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by 4of5Rocker

Dude... you should talk to a teacher about this.

I'm Aaron, btw.

i know.. but i just... idk... i guess im scared they'll be mad at me and i really dont like talking to teachers and i dont know which teacher to talk to about it... wow... that looks like a bunch of excuses... and if i told a teacher they'd tell my mom and my mom wouldnt let me hang out wwith them and theres no one else to hang out with.

Gods*Armygirl · 05-16-2008, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by taykey

I think I figured out the problem. All of the people in that group of friends are most of the time really nice. except for two of them. and one of them, the one who pokes me, is most of the time, only mean to me around this one person, who is kinda a "leader"... if that makes sense. later today, the two mean ones and one other went somwhere else, and I was kinda a loner for a while,( I didnt go with them cuz I thought there were going of the school grounds and my mom wouldnt alow me) and later i saw them but didnt want to hang out with them cuz they were smearing pudding on me

. and then my freind came and we went and hung out with two other people who were involved with the cream cheese and the one who pokes me, but it was fun. they were nice to me then. I think theyre only mean to me around that one person. What do I do? Cuz I really like the rest of people from that group. they really are nice, most of the time.

If you're looking for advice, maybe you should make a thread about this in the Advice forum. You'll get more responses that way.

Well maybe you should talk to your good friends when those 2 aren't around. That way you can tell them how it makes you feel when they do that, and that it hurts you. If they still can't understand, then maybe they're not that great of friends.
You should tell an adult about how they keep smearing food on you though. Wouldn't someone have seen it already?

Gods*Armygirl · 05-16-2008, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by taykey

i know.. but i just... idk... i guess im scared they'll be mad at me and i really dont like talking to teachers and i dont know which teacher to talk to about it... wow... that looks like a bunch of excuses... and if i told a teacher they'd tell my mom and my mom wouldnt let me hang out wwith them and theres no one else to hang out with.

hmm I do have to agree with Aaron that if you don't tell anyone, it's most likely not going to get any better. I really suggest you try and find some new friends and if you can't, then talk to them. Pray to God about it.

Demon_Hunter · 05-16-2008, 07:34 PM

I can realy empathize with what you are going through. I really can. And I hate that some kids feel the need to torture the less popular kids so that their percieved leaders will like them.

When I was in middle school I was in just about the same position as you. People who outright stated that they hated me would use me as a punching bag. And people who hated me but pretended to be my friend used me to ridicule me publicly, and for a punching bag also.
For the last year of middle school I was severely depressed, and a few times thought about suicide.

I said all that to say this. It does get better. Dont despair, and dont loose hope!

Also, dont be afraid to go to a teacher. **** those kids, and what you are afraid they might think of you. You already know they arent really your friends, and they treat you despicably. Dont worry about their feelings at this point. You need to protect yourself. Get help now!

sweet345 · 05-17-2008, 11:08 AM

I know how feel really im am going through almost the same though my "friends" dont smear food on me. You should tell someone find new friends.They dont have the right to dig there nals into u.it wont get any better unless u do sometinhin about it.Wow they are doing horrible things they are not good friends has u already no.