[surferdude9375]

Lets start out with the story but make a note that I am not the one to jump into dating relationships and rather make lasting friends and let it move into a deeper relationship on its own if thats how it should be.

So since about 2 years ago I had an interest in this girl (not only did I like her, she liked me and we both knew it). We have been good friends and still remain friends over these 2 years. She has since began a relationship with another guy (LDR going on maybe 1 year) but I keep the same feelings towards her. She has a split emotions towards this guy she is dating and I at the same time and she has let me know this.

How can I move past this feeling towards her because I know it would be better (for us both) just to get over it and move on with our friendship? This or any other suggestions are appreciated.

[bobthecockroach]

Simply don't act on the feeling in any way, and when it enters your mind, push it out. Just think about something else. You can't just make yourself stop feeling that way by sheer willpower, but you can train yourself not to think it.