I Hate This.

retfAMathReborn · 01-30-2008, 09:53 PM

Does any of the guys out there know this feeling?

There is this girl she saved spirit filled you like her she likes you

but all the sudden, some other girl you see you think you might

like as well pops up in you're life, you feel like you're betraying

the previous girl, then another comes along and so on.

I hate it honestly being a young single man I am looking for opinoins on what to do

thanks y'all
peace Iggy

Ax · 01-30-2008, 10:16 PM

That poll is highly inappropriate.

***Art*** · 01-30-2008, 10:27 PM

My first piece of advice is to structure your sentences properly. What you posted is very hard to read.

Second, we will need more information before we can give you advice. Are you dating the first girl? What is so appealing about the second girl?

Third, your poll is nonsensical, and is being deleted.

Nate · 01-30-2008, 11:48 PM

Question: Why is this happening?

Answer: God wired us as guys to like boobs.

Solution: Get used to it and don't freak out over them.

Prediction: Girls you've never seen will probably always exist.

Another solution: Don't freak out when you meet a new girl.

Final thought: Freaking out does not equate to "liking".

retfAMathReborn · 01-31-2008, 04:07 PM

Is there a rule against asking some one about there genre,
I apologize.

***Art*** · 01-31-2008, 04:10 PM

No rule against it. This just isn't the place. Cheap Post forum is a good place for that poll.

spyrotheleo · 01-31-2008, 04:10 PM

Wow that was really hard to read. My thoughts if your not dating the first girl, its not betraying her. And it depends if you started a relationship or not. But how old are you?

retfAMathReborn · 01-31-2008, 04:20 PM

Who told you I was freaking out? If you got that impression from the message,
that is not what I am trying to portray myself as.
What I am trying to say is there are couple of girls I am interested in.
And that prediction about girls, you are absolutely right!
And about the boobs, I like boobs, but I am making an attempt not to lust.
I figure thats kinda shallow, I could be wrong?

retfAMathReborn · 01-31-2008, 04:22 PM

Sorry, I was very vague on the writing and the topic, but I will be a little more specific now.
I am 16. I guess I should not be worried about dating. Thanks anyways though guys!
See ya.

Nate · 01-31-2008, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by retfAMathReborn

Who told you I was freaking out? If you got that impression from the message,
that is not what I am trying to portray myself as.

I know you're not trying to portray yourself as that, but it's how you come across and probably how you're acting in spite of yourself. When the right girl comes along, you won't be distracted by another or suddenly think that some other girl is the one for you. Trust me.

Quote:

What I am trying to say is there are couple of girls I am interested in.

There's a super lame episode from the super lame old show Full House that has some great profundity to offer on this topic. In the episode, DJ (a teenage girl about your age) is torn between two "great guys" that are interested in dating her. She can't decide which she likes more or which she wants to be with. At the end of the episode, the two guys come up to her together and give her an ultimatum: choose one of us. She says "Guys, if I have to choose only one of you right now, then I choose neither," because she still can't make up her mind. Her aunt comes over to console her and offers her (here's the profundity I promised) this pearl: "If either of them had been the right guy for you, you would have been able to choose."

Until you're able to choose, rest assured knowing that it's just your natural inclination to be attracted to and interested in girls clicking in. You will know when it's your heart instead of your hormones telling you to pursue a girl. You may not know it right away, but you will know.

segoviamuse · 02-11-2008, 03:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nate

Question: Why is this happening?

Answer: God wired us as guys to like boobs.

Solution: Get used to it and don't freak out over them.

Prediction: Girls you've never seen will probably always exist.

Another solution: Don't freak out when you meet a new girl.

Final thought: Freaking out does not equate to "liking".

way to be truthfully blunt

adamkaboom · 02-12-2008, 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nate

Question: Why is this happening?

Answer: God wired us as guys to like boobs.

Solution: Get used to it and don't freak out over them.

Prediction: Girls you've never seen will probably always exist.

Another solution: Don't freak out when you meet a new girl.

Final thought: Freaking out does not equate to "liking".

You always have a way of scraping all the sugar off of your comments... and I find it quite funny. But I must say that I agree with this!

bradguitarbeast · 02-12-2008, 11:30 AM

I would simple say that praying is something you should do right now.and I would like to ask ( if someone has already asked this I am sorry for bringing it up again.)what is it that you see in both girls.if all you see in one is just an attractive girl and the other you like for who she is then I would tell you to go with the one that you like for her and not the one that just looks good.also look for things that you have in common with both girls and see who has the most in common with you.oh yea one more question.does the 2nd girl even like you?it would be foolish to give up a girl who likes you for a girl who doesn't.

Iceman-bass14 · 02-13-2008, 06:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweat

i kinda disagree here.....I would say you are betraying her or basically getting her hopes up if you flirt with her all the time and stuff then go on a date with her and are like we should do this again sometime and then the next weekend some random girl you have never heard mentioned and that guy goes on a date and then so on and so on....if that makes any since .....basically dont lead a girl on if you dont really like her that much or dont want the relationship to go any further

You seem to be assuming a lot.Never did he say he ever went on a date with this one girl.He likes one girl(huge differnce between liking and dating),and now theres another girl thats come around.

Emyv1 · 02-24-2008, 06:32 PM

Well, first of all 16 is kinda young to date. Second, you should choose the girl that likes you and is Christian. Third, never choose a girl for her looks, some girls who are very pretty can actually be really mean. Choose the girl that you know you could spend the rest of your life with, after all, dating is for the purpose of finding your Marriage Partner, sooooo......... choose wisely.