[HooBassist]

Originally Posted by Decency

Three words for ya: Talk, Talk, Talk.

Actually its more like Listen Listen Listen.

[Travis]

Originally Posted by Mac_Guy

I'm not sure weather or not to call her a girl or a women.

She's 17, I'm 18. We both work at our church, I'm in the computer department, she's maintenance, think big church. She's a high-school senior, I'm a college freshmen.

I met her a few weeks ago, had a crush ever since. I want to ask her out but I don't want to be to forward or creepy. I know her name and a little about her. Should I ask her out, or wait? Why?

My main concern is sexual harassment and being accused of it (I don't want to).

What/how would we talk about? What should I talk about on a date, I'm a newbie to dating.

Ask her out. What's the difference? You're less than a year apart. Just take it slowly.

[Mac_Guy]

We've talking, she's faced booked me. .. . I do think she likes me. I'll be friends for now....

[tropicana]

Just a caveat: it's not usually a very good idea to date someone you know from work. If it ends while either of you are still working there, it could be awkward (ranging from uncomfortable silence in the break room to all-out ostracism if it's an ugly breakup), and the last thing you want is to break up with your girlfriend and then be unemployed.

[FastRedPonyCar]

Originally Posted by tropicana

Just a caveat: it's not usually a very good idea to date someone you know from work. If it ends while either of you are still working there, it could be awkward (ranging from uncomfortable silence in the break room to all-out ostracism if it's an ugly breakup), and the last thing you want is to break up with your girlfriend and then be unemployed.

Unfortunately, I agree with this... unless you wouldn't have a hard time finding another job shold the relationship turn sour.

There are policies in professional work environments prohibiting dating within the company for this very reason.

Tread lightly my friend. Take things slow, build a friendship with her and then see what happens. Just always remember that if you two have a nasty break up if you start dating, one of you will almost certainly have to find another job unless you two never have to see each other at work and then it wouldn't be so bad.