[steggz]

When I said time heals things, it's more that things heal over time. It's not the time itself that heals.

[tht00]

Originally Posted by headbanger13

I don't know. When she broke up with me she asked me to keep calling her, and then when I did she told me to stop. She didn't even talk to me for 3 months. She kinda said hi to me a week ago, and I didn't really know what to do.

Relationships don't always make sense, and breakups can make even less.

If she said 'hi', then responding with 'hi' is usually a good start. No, seriously. Just try to treat her like another person/friend... I know that may not be easy, but if you can start friendly/non-awkward conversations, that could go a long way towards becoming friends again.

Originally Posted by H.M. Murdock

The thing is, time doesn't heal a person. What happens during the time taken determines whether or not that person heals, and that's tricky stuff. Time itself is immaterial and meaningless.

I think we agree... I'm just not caring for your wording.

In a way, emotional wounds are similar to real ones. If don't take care of a bad cut, it will fester, get infected, and time will make it worse. If you take care of it, it will get better. The thing is, time is an important factor... and shouldn't be ignored. Even in the best of circumstances, healing takes time.

[floatinggoats]

three months is fine, it just means you really cared for her..I dated someone and it took me well over a year to get over that person, but we had been dating for a very long time. that kinda pain can take a long time to heal, just be patient with yourself and don't bottle it up!
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