help!!!

madd beast yo · 10-26-2007, 04:55 PM

Ok this might sound kinda strange..but keep reading. There's this girl at my school I really like, but I don't know if she likes me. Last week she didn't want to have anything to do with me..didn't even want to talk to me. But what is strange is this week shes been talkin to me a lot! We've been flirting and walking together in the halls and stuff and she's really nice and pretty..but I don't know what to think or say. Any suggestions??

bobthecockroach · 10-26-2007, 04:56 PM

You could say, "You know... I kinda like you."

rock_show_host · 10-26-2007, 05:17 PM

Try to find an activity or some way you two could hang out outside of school. There can sometimes be a world of difference the way people interact in school and outside of it, and spending outside time with her will definitely help you get to know her better.

TahoeJeff · 10-26-2007, 05:22 PM

**Sean** · 10-26-2007, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by madd beast yo

Ok this might sound kinda strange..but keep reading.

Nope...sounds completely normal. Boys and girls who like each other are known for doing rather strange things.

madd beast yo · 10-26-2007, 08:20 PM

well thanks for your help..anymore suggestions would be nice. you see, im in basketball and shes in cheerleading but that doesnt help cuz we're both doing different things. i kinda wanna find a way to see if she likes me without asking or me telling her i like her. if she happens to not like me i think she could retaliate pretty badly =/

**Sean** · 10-26-2007, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by madd beast yo

well thanks for your help..anymore suggestions would be nice. you see, im in basketball and shes in cheerleading but that doesnt help cuz we're both doing different things. i kinda wanna find a way to see if she likes me without asking or me telling her i like her.

One of the tricky things about relationships is that at some point in time you have to be vulnerable. There's not easy way to find out if she likes you besides asking her. So unless she tells a friend of a friends sister who confides in your cousin who tells you that she does in fact like you, you're going to have to be vulnerable to find out.

If you're willing to give this sometime (which I would recommend), just try and be friends with her. Take things slowly and see how they progress. If she likes you it will become apparent eventually. Thats what I did with my wife and we're married now. There was a moment where I told her that I liked her, but it was at a point where I was fairly certain she liked me.

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if she happens to not like me i think she could retaliate pretty badly =/

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Iceman-bass14 · 10-26-2007, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by madd beast yo

well thanks for your help..anymore suggestions would be nice. you see, im in basketball and shes in cheerleading but that doesnt help cuz we're both doing different things.

Dont cheerleaders cheer at basketball games?

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i kinda wanna find a way to see if she likes me without asking or me telling her i like her. if she happens to not like me i think she could retaliate pretty badly =/

1.I think you should just tell her.2.If a girl would retaliate at you just cause you like her doesnt sound like shes a very nice person.

madd beast yo · 10-26-2007, 08:58 PM

haha yea chearleaders cheer at basketball games..but that doesnt mean i get to talk to her during it. and i try to talk to her..to swallow my gut and just say something nice..but im too shy and i always chicken out. and i guess she would retaliate not cuz shes mean, but because shes..um really emotional, i guess u could say.

wjarmusch · 10-26-2007, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Sean

One of the tricky things about relationships is that at some point in time you have to be vulnerable. There's not easy way to find out if she likes you besides asking her. So unless she tells a friend of a friends sister who confides in your cousin who tells you that she does in fact like you, you're going to have to be vulnerable to find out.

If you're willing to give this sometime (which I would recommend), just try and be friends with her. Take things slowly and see how they progress. If she likes you it will become apparent eventually. Thats what I did with my wife and we're married now. There was a moment where I told her that I liked her, but it was at a point where I was fairly certain she liked me.

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I totally agree with Sean here. My experience has been the same. I'm engaged, and we didn't admit that we liked each other for quite a while. It was to the point the most of our friends assumed that we liked each other & I was quite sure she liked me before we actually talked about it. Actually her sister had been teasing me about it for a while...so it was quite obvious before anything actually happened. So, give it time & become friends first. It'll pay off later.

madd beast yo · 10-27-2007, 07:04 AM

Ok ill try and talk to her more and walk with her more and stuff. Yesterday I felt really close to her..but i can't be sure yet. If i get a sign she likes me, I'll tell her I like her. Or if her friend or someone tells me she likes me. Thanks for posting.

**H.M. Murdock** · 10-27-2007, 04:42 PM

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Nope...sounds completely normal. Boys and girls who like each other are known for doing rather strange things.

If love is blind, that probably explains a lot about the stop-and-go stagger-about nature of most relationships.

**Simo** · 10-28-2007, 05:02 AM

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well thanks for your help..anymore suggestions would be nice. you see, im in basketball and shes in cheerleading but that doesnt help cuz we're both doing different things. i kinda wanna find a way to see if she likes me without asking or me telling her i like her. if she happens to not like me i think she could retaliate pretty badly =/

Have " * Insert Her Name*..... *Insert Your Name* thinks Ur Hot " flashed on the big screen at your next game. Works a treat!

madd beast yo · 10-28-2007, 07:20 PM

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Have " * Insert Her Name*..... *Insert Your Name* thinks Ur Hot " flashed on the big screen at your next game. Works a treat!

haha that would b pretty funny..but not happenin. i broke my wrist or messed it up pretty badly so im done...no more basketball.....

**DaGeek** · 10-28-2007, 07:48 PM

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haha that would b pretty funny..but not happenin. i broke my wrist or messed it up pretty badly so im done...no more basketball.....

I'm sorry to hear about that, man. That really sucks.