Uh-oh, it's me again!

Job 19:25-27 · 08-09-2007, 08:00 PM

I can totally understand that!

Dads can be extremely difficult to talk to... But they also know you the best & while that's hard to deal with, it's also very helpful at times in avoiding problems & hurting yourself &/or other people. (who, in this case would be Lexi & Rick & their fam)
I would pray about talking to him. God made him your dad for a reason & while that doesn't mean he has to be in on EVERYTHING, I think it'd be good if you could talk to him about this...

Toadazzoffa · 08-09-2007, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by adamkaboom

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Probably because all my dad has done is given me static about girls in general since I hit middle school. I don't know... I know he didn't mean anything by it but it just makes me feel unsure about talking to him.

I can understand that. My step-son was always over-eager to fall in love, and never understood when my wife would tell him not to get so serious about these early relationships. It shouldn't be ALL that serious anyway. So he thought she just didn't understand and couldn't relate.

My wife and I have the greatest relationship because we were co-workers/friends for almost three years before we became a "couple".

At any rate, Just take your time, feel things out, and don't rush anything.

Good luck!!

adamkaboom · 08-15-2007, 09:17 PM

I was gonna post an update... but I had a strange conviction to not... so, yea. Until another time!!! Thanks everyone!

adamkaboom · 08-20-2007, 03:08 PM

So, I asked Lex on Saturday, and talked to Rick last night. So, as far as dating goes... we want to but aren't right now. We are both taking time to pray about this and see what God has to say. Everything seems to be falling in to place... it's strange how this is working out! Anyway, I could say more but this is all I'm going to say. All I ask is that you keep us in prayer to hear God's voice and that we make a decision based on him instead of running with our emotions. Thanks everyone!

adamkaboom · 08-24-2007, 08:24 PM

So! Lex and I had to talk some things out... concerns that we had, but we got ourselves worked through those, and are now a couple. Thanks for all your help everyone!

Pre-Ex-Girlfriend · 08-30-2007, 12:52 PM

Okay, so I just now read this, and YAY! Our little Adam is dating a girl! Awww... he's growing up so fast. :happycry:

adamkaboom · 09-01-2007, 09:58 AM

haha lol! Thanks rachael. You guys raised me well!!!!

adamkaboom · 09-08-2007, 09:16 PM

Woo-Hoo!!! Praise the Lord for my girlfriend!!! We had an incredible day today. She came down to see me this morning and it was so nice to be together. It hurts that I can't even express how much I care for this woman.... ah... but it's a great pain to have!!! Just being with each other... and the fact that being in each others arms was worth more than a thousand words could ever be...but I did write her a song.

Chorus
On a night like this
Thoughts of you fill my mind
On a night like this
I need you here, by my side
We should be together
On a night like this
Verse
Everyday I wonder why you make me feel this way
But everyday I know that I wouldn't change a thing
P.C.
No one told me that this would be, be this hard
But I'll be with you, always be with you
Bridge
Everyday, and everynight
I'll think of you
And oh I'll miss you

*slowly fading out*
On a night like this
When I look into your eyes
On a night like this
I'm glad you're here, by my side
We will be together...
...On a night like this

I miss her quite terribly

**Rainer.** · 09-08-2007, 09:31 PM

Silly boy.

tht00 · 09-08-2007, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by adamkaboom

Woo-Hoo!!! Praise the Lord for my girlfriend!!! We had an incredible day today. She came down to see me this morning and it was so nice to be together. It hurts that I can't even express how much I care for this woman.... ah... but it's a great pain to have!!! Just being with each other... and the fact that being in each others arms was worth more than a thousand words could ever be...but I did write her a song.

Awesome. Days like that are indeed incredible.

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Originally Posted by adamkaboom

I miss her quite terribly

I don't want to sound pessimistic, and I know your emotions are racing... but hope and pray that you can never truly say that. Your definition and tolerance of 'missing' someone can change drastically and quickly.

adamkaboom · 09-09-2007, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by tht00

I don't want to sound pessimistic, and I know your emotions are racing... but hope and pray that you can never truly say that. Your definition and tolerance of 'missing' someone can change drastically and quickly.

hmmm.... I'm not quite sure what exactly your trying to get at

tht00 · 09-09-2007, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by adamkaboom

hmmm.... I'm not quite sure what exactly your trying to get at

Life happens. Breakup/death/etc.

You'll really know what it means to "miss someone" after a relationship fails and there's nothing you can do about it. That's what I was getting at.

Again, not trying to put a sour spin on the topic... but I think your comment needed some perspective. Life is good right now. Enjoy it.

adamkaboom · 09-09-2007, 09:23 PM

Oh...thanks for the perspective...although losses of those close to the heart aren't a stranger to me unfortunately. I do understand where you're coming from, and I do know that if I were to lose her... I would definitely cry my heart dry. Since we can't be together as much as we would like... I cherish every single moment I have with her. I think although it can be taken the wrong way (as I took your comment...my apologies!), that is definitely something that many people forget when it comes to 'missing' someone...