Wish Me Luck!(asking someone out)

Cruelty*free · 08-24-2007, 11:12 AM

You go man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Who's bringing sexy back??

*sorry im hyper*

Willib 14 · 08-25-2007, 08:01 PM

I have the same problem but don't rush into things

earlessdog · 08-28-2007, 09:06 PM

Well, a few nights ago i was at her place till 1:30 again, playing cards and talking etc. And then the night after, i was at her place again till 1:15, we watched a movie and played cards again.

I think she likes me, unless she just being nice or something, but i MIGHT ask her out this weekend if i feel like we know each other good enough. But this will be the last weekend she'll be here trill next summer, i'd have to drive to the city to see her i guess.

Gods*Armygirl · 08-28-2007, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by earlessdog

Well, a few nights ago i was at her place till 1:30 again, playing cards and talking etc. And then the night after, i was at her place again till 1:15, we watched a movie and played cards again.

I think she likes me, unless she just being nice or something, but i MIGHT ask her out this weekend if i feel like we know each other good enough. But this will be the last weekend she'll be here trill next summer, i'd have to drive to the city to see her i guess.

Ask her out man. BE QUICK, BE QUICK.

tht00 · 08-29-2007, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by earlessdog

Well, a few nights ago i was at her place till 1:30 again, playing cards and talking etc. And then the night after, i was at her place again till 1:15, we watched a movie and played cards again.

I think she likes me, unless she just being nice or something, but i MIGHT ask her out this weekend if i feel like we know each other good enough. But this will be the last weekend she'll be here trill next summer, i'd have to drive to the city to see her i guess.

Dude, just go for it.

You obviously _really_ like her. You've been spending good, positive time with her, and sounds like you're getting along well.

If you're ready for this, bring it up and ask her out. Even if she doesn't say 'yes' right now, it gives you the ability to talk to her about it and see how she feels, especially if there are concerns about distance (Hour and a half? Significant enough for concern. Different people respond to distance differently -- something to be aware of.)

Oh, and be as open and honest as you can (within reason) when you do this. It's better to have your feelings, intentions, and expectations out in the open rather than assumed... from both sides really (and girls don't freak out as easily as you'd think

). That was a big mistake I made and we kind of avoided the tougher topics, which made things really rough later on. Ugh...

So yeah. Looks like things are going decent. Just trying to make sure you don't fall into the same mistakes I did (and still regret).

earlessdog · 09-01-2007, 09:42 PM

I asked her out, and she said yes!
So thanks so much to you guys, for encouraging me and giving me your advice for the whole deal I can't believe I actually asked her out, she was quite happy I did.

But, that was yesterdauy, and I can't remember if i'm supposed to be there right now (tonight) or not. I didn't get a chance to talk to her today. So i'm at home, hopefully she won't be too upset with me.
Her name is Carly by the way, incase I didn't mention it.

So, I have a girlfriend, wow.

Thanks guys.

Gods*Armygirl · 09-01-2007, 10:22 PM

Congrats man. Don't mess this up now.

**H.M. Murdock** · 09-04-2007, 05:15 PM

If her father is as protective as her brother (which, fortunately, means nothing as it is not his job to determine who she does and does not go out with), you should challenge him to a duel. It's easy, fast, and will either earn respect or remove the issue from your life permanently- very permanently, actually, since you will be dead in such an instance.
Just walk up to him, throw a glove (preferrably without a single trace of girly lacy stuff on it) on the ground and shout, "The smack, she is down!"
Then go at it, fisticuff.

earlessdog · 09-04-2007, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by H.M. Murdock

If her father is as protective as her brother (which, fortunately, means nothing as it is not his job to determine who she does and does not go out with), you should challenge him to a duel. It's easy, fast, and will either earn respect or remove the issue from your life permanently- very permanently, actually, since you will be dead in such an instance.
Just walk up to him, throw a glove (preferrably without a single trace of girly lacy stuff on it) on the ground and shout, "The smack, she is down!"
Then go at it, fisticuff.

Um, i'll have to . . not do that one, he actually likes me, but I don't think he knows I asked out his daughter yet. I don't know if shes told them, but me going for walks at night, and hanging around her so much, I think hes got the idea.
Her mom told me to come over, and that they have an extra bedroom if I need it sometime. And she knows very well that her daughter and me have a thing going on, so that is awesome.

AudioACanuck · 09-05-2007, 07:04 AM

I think it's a good idea to get the parents blessing. Like figure out where her parents stand, and even where your parents stand if you don't know. It makes things run smoother. And if you are open with them, chances are you'll get in their good books and it's always good to be in with your girlfriends parents.