[Tmurrin]

hey hey
look thanks for taking the time to read this but theres this girl duhh and we have been best friends for 2-3 years and we found out that we both have feelings for each other but the thing is is shes gonna move like 9 hrs from me. So we were gonna wait till the end of summer but im goin nuts i cant stop thinkin bout her. haha shes ruining my summer jk but i told her how i felt and she said she felt the same way and asked where do i wanna go from here so i wrote this huge email cause i wont be able to talk to her for 1 and a half months. And i explained all my feelings but she hasnt writtin back i mean its only been a day but she always writes back right away. i mean i know that shes prolly thinkin bout it and all but the advice i need is if she says no how far do i back off this is for girls mostly cause i dont want this to hurt my friendship and i dont wanna be a jerk theres enough of those around well thanks for reading and if you wanna know more send me a message ill tell the story to anyone who wants to give advice and its a good one but thanks form reading

[Cruelty*free]

So your asking...what if she says that she doesnt want to go that far?
*sorry

[Tmurrin]

i mean i really wanna call and talk but if she doesnt want to which im not sure if she does or doesnt want a relationship i dont want it to hurt our friendship i wont let it thats why i need help

[Tmurrin]

Originally Posted by Cruelty*free

So your asking...what if she says that she doesnt want to go that far?
*sorry

yeah if she doesnt want a relationship do i back off like i dont wanna giv up cause she told me that she likes me alot and ya

[Cruelty*free]

Well calling her and asking her is a good idea. Girls are known to have mixed feeling. She likes you as you stated...if she doesnt want a relationship you should not force it. Say ok and that you understand. It should not effect your friendship because you have a right to ask especially if she came on that way. Dont worry she'll respond to the email

[Tmurrin]

okay see i wanna call bad but i cant haha shes on a diff continent but see if she likes me as juch as she says then why doesnt she want a relationship i mean i respect her so much but i just dont understand i mean its prolly me and if it was that i would im just lost

[Cruelty*free]

Yeah so many mixed feelings. I mean what if she wants it but doesnt feel like she's ready? Well i've felt that before. Dont make her feel like she's rushed into it either. Let her know whatever decision she makes that you'll be there...either waiting..or hanging out on the daily.

[Tmurrin]

okay ahhhhh but the thing is i wanna be there for her but as more than a friend

[Tmurrin]

but thats what ill tell her thanks i told her that her descion wont ever affect our friendship

[Cruelty*free]

I feel you pain im sorry. I hope everything works out..
is that all?

[Tmurrin]

yeah thanks i need alot of advice

[Gods*Armygirl]

Originally Posted by Tmurrin

okay see i wanna call bad but i cant haha shes on a diff continent but see if she likes me as juch as she says then why doesnt she want a relationship i mean i respect her so much but i just dont understand i mean its prolly me and if it was that i would im just lost

I'm sure she would want a relationship just as much as you because she told you that she had feelings for you. Maybe she is afraid that having a relationship could ruin your friendship, or maybe she is afraid of having a long distance relationship. Girls normally tend to think about this kind of stuff more than guys so she is probably thinking about this whole thing alot like you're doing. Just try to relax. Wait awhile and give her a chance to think things over then give her a call. If you two are meant to be together, God will work things out.

[Tmurrin]

haha hey again thanks for the advice and i will call