Calling all girls, calling all girls, I need your help!!

indierokr15 · 07-15-2007, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Tmurrin

hey man haha sry im not a girl but i am in the exact same sit..... see i told her right before she left and shes gone for 9 weeks and im goin nuts right now. but did you give her the songs you wrote? i was thinkin the exact same thing that i didnt wanna lose a great friend cause she was my best and still is but she likes me too and i never wouldda found it out unless i wouldda told her. and even if she doesnt like you still stay friends. but tell her call and tell her dont make her wait any longer cause i waited to long and i dont regret it cause of certain circumstances but i do cause something would have happened so man dont wait call her and talk to her about it

Hey dude thanks, a lot. I will tell her sometime this week, because I'll be with her every day this week. I think I will tell her, and if it doesn't work out I know that God has a reason for that, and I will be thankful for anything she tells me because whatever happens I know I've let go and let God take control.

indierokr15 · 07-15-2007, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by -[R]-ChurchPunk

Hey.. I don't have any advice on this subject, but I just wanted to let you know that if you click the button to the right of the Quote button, (it has a " and a +) on all the posts you want to reply to, then click quote, it'll make it so you can respond all in one post. It's tidier that way. =)

Hey dude thanks for the tip I'll use it next time.

-[R]-ChurchPunk · 07-15-2007, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by indierokr15

Hey dude thanks for the tip I'll use it next time.

Glad to. =)

Guitaress · 07-15-2007, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Rainer.

I sit with the camp that says you're still young, and have quite a bit of strong feelings for this girl, and therefore probably aren't acting rationally right now. To answer your question, it does should like she likes you, but I'd figure out what you're really feeling and figure out whether you're ready to have a thoughtful relationship with this girl before you go after one.

I'm gonna go different from the people that give others +1 fer their answers...

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But sieriously raniner's right. You should figure yer feelins out before you "Go for the gold", so to speak.

And yer young yet, there's still time, so don't worry

wjarmusch · 07-15-2007, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Rainer.

I sit with the camp that says you're still young, and have quite a bit of strong feelings for this girl, and therefore probably aren't acting rationally right now. To answer your question, it does should like she likes you, but I'd figure out what you're really feeling and figure out whether you're ready to have a thoughtful relationship with this girl before you go after one.

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Originally Posted by indierokr15

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Originally Posted by headbanger13
Go for it.
What do you have to lose, anyway?

A really good friend.

I think you said it best yourself here.

I agree with Rainer. I'd wait it out. What good is really going to come of finding out this girl likes you...and even dating her? Most 15 year olds aren't ready for it to turn into anything serious. For example...do you think you could marry this girl?

There are exceptions, but for the most part, be careful. I know, both from experience, and from friends....that it's easy to lose a friend due to awkwardness with the whole "liking" each other, or if one person "likes" the other one. Sure, talk about how you feel, and don't lie anything, as in, if the 'do you like me enough to hug me' comes up.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, be careful, it's a touchy subject & easy to lose friends. Oh, and PRAY about it too.

Gods*Armygirl · 07-15-2007, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by indierokr15

Ya I guess I could I'm gonna be at camp with her all week starting tomorrow. So I guess I could ask one of her friends and I'm bringing my guitar to camp so I could sing her a song. You think she would like that?

Are you kidding me? Any girl would love for a guy to sing her a song.

I'm sure if you do she will think that your really sweet. Yeah just hang around her at the camp and see if she still shows signs of liking you (and I'm sure she will). That will help bost your confidence.

Tell me what happens.

Hey maybe to make up for not giving her a hug, just ask her for one at camp.

Guitaress · 07-15-2007, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Gods*Armygirl

Are you kidding me? Any girl would love for a guy to sing her a song.

I'm sure if you do she will think that your really sweet. Yeah just hang around her at the camp and see if she still shows signs of liking you (and I'm sure she will). That will help bost your confidence.

Tell me what happens.

Agree totally on that! I know I'd love fer a guy to sing me a song, atleast play guitar fer me(Been there, it's sooo sweet!

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Hey maybe to make up for not giving her a hug, just ask her for one at camp.

No, you could surprise her with a hug when you see her

bobthecockroach · 07-15-2007, 10:30 PM

Let me just say this. It'll be alright. There's a lot of things going through your mind right now, I'm sure. Try not to worry so much. Regardless what happens, it's not the end of the world.

**Rainer.** · 07-15-2007, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by bobthecockroach

Let me just say this. It'll be alright. There's a lot of things going through your mind right now, I'm sure. Try not to worry so much. Regardless what happens, it's not the end of the world.

Yes, indeed. That's very important to remember. Whatever happens, you have a while to live.

Just also keep in mind that once you put your feelings out in the open, it's hard to go back.

Ax · 07-15-2007, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by indierokr15

Hey dude thanks for the tip I'll use it next time.

Next time you create a username... don't use any variation of rokr or 15 or 14... and don't post the same picture of your band that you did with all your other banned usernames.

Uncle Todd · 07-23-2007, 05:30 AM

So this thread hasn't had anything happen in a week, but I wanted to say something regarding the losing a friend part.

A year and a half ago or so, I completely fell for my best friend (I was 15 at the time). But I couldn't tell her. I'd plan to every week, then chicken out.
So gradually I started to like her more and more, and she didn't even know.
So then comes summer, and she has to move to New York. The other side of the country (I was in California at the time).
I determine the last time I see her, I would have to tell her how I felt since it would be the last opportunity.
She ended up being sick, so she wasn't there. I ended up having to call her, and when I told her how I felt (by this time I had fallen COMPLETELY and I'm pretty sure I loved her), I find out she thinks of me as a brother.
From then on it gets incredibly weird between us... and we really both lost our friendship.

When I finally got over her almost half a year later, I called her back up and we talked. For a long time.
We became friends again, and in just acting towards eachother as friends and talking like friends, we now have an incredibly strong relationship.
We now are best friends, and I love her now as a best friend and as a sister in Christ.

I'm just trying to say, if you like her, don't wait for it to become worse, and if she doesn't like you back it IS possible to still be friends.

bobthecockroach · 07-23-2007, 09:22 AM

Seeing as the person who started this thread has been banned, I think this thread can be closed.