Advice about a girl i like

noah_67 · 07-07-2007, 02:33 AM

ok i have liked this girl all through grade 9-12 than in grade 12 i finally asked her out to movie and she said yes but it was at the end of the year and after the movie we kinda never said we should do this again or anything and i tried phoning her 3 times but she wasnt home so i've waited 3 weeks now cuz we just graduated and dont go to school together anymore but i still wanna ask her out again and im just wondering how i should do it, if i should visit her at her work (restaurant) she's waitress, or phone her or sumthing, i also want to know a good place to take her thats a better place than a movie and if theres anything funny i can say to start up a conversation cuz im not good at starting conversations but once i get going i can do well. Thanks for any advice.

wjarmusch · 07-07-2007, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by noah_67

ok i have liked this girl all through grade 9-12 than in grade 12 i finally asked her out to movie and she said yes but it was at the end of the year and after the movie we kinda never said we should do this again or anything and i tried phoning her 3 times but she wasnt home so i've waited 3 weeks now cuz we just graduated and dont go to school together anymore but i still wanna ask her out again and im just wondering how i should do it, if i should visit her at her work (restaurant) she's waitress, or phone her or sumthing, i also want to know a good place to take her thats a better place than a movie and if theres anything funny i can say to start up a conversation cuz im not good at starting conversations but once i get going i can do well. Thanks for any advice.

If she's a waitress that should make it fairly simple for you to drop in & say hi.

Jaymze13 · 07-07-2007, 09:01 AM

Just don't show up and bother her. Make a legit trip out of it and see if you can get her table. Or maybe find out when her shift ends and show up near the end of it.

wjarmusch · 07-07-2007, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Jaymze13

Just don't show up and bother her. Make a legit trip out of it and see if you can get her table. Or maybe find out when her shift ends and show up near the end of it.

Right...I left that part out, although I was thinking it.
Yes, definitely don't just stop to say, actually get something to eat and wait for a good time to have a quick conversation. Know what you want to say before-hand too.

Random:Dice · 07-08-2007, 04:05 PM

just hook up and ask if you can hang out

BRob · 07-10-2007, 10:53 PM

hey maybe just like take her shopping:P or a less bad idea! just dont take her to a common spot and think hard for a original place.

**Rainer.** · 07-11-2007, 01:00 AM

And using some periods would be nice, too.

As far as conversation, go with the easy, go with the obvious. What's been going on in your life after high school. What did you think about school. What are you planning to do. Etc. Be interested in her, then the conversation can develop itself. Answer the questions yourself, as well.

ApparentlyNothing · 07-12-2007, 02:04 AM

Question:

The three times you called her and she wasn't home, did you leave her messages telling her to call you back along with a number to reach you? If yes, and she still hasn't called you, I'd say take a hint. Otherwise, you should definitely try to get ahold of her, and once you do, just ask her out again, and not to a movie because you hardly talk during those. Take her to dinner, or if you want something more casual, lunch or coffee.