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Old 06-03-2007, 04:22 PM   #1
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I wondering if anybody here has advice on how to find the right girl to date. I'm already 16 going on 17 and feel like I need an appropriate, clean relationship between a girl who's Christian

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You're only 16. You dont' need to be on a desperate hunt just yet.
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Old 06-03-2007, 06:51 PM   #4
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I wondering if anybody here has advice on how to find the right girl to date. I'm already 16 going on 17 and feel like I need an appropriate, clean relationship between a girl who's Christian
Church, Christian concerts?
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Old 06-03-2007, 07:03 PM   #5
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Yeah, first off, you don't need one, and second off, you don't really go off "looking" for a girl like that. It's an inherently flawed concept to be going off looking for a girl for the express intent of starting a romantic relationship. They're out there. Make some new friends.
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Old 06-04-2007, 03:11 PM   #6
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Yeah, first off, you don't need one, and second off, you don't really go off "looking" for a girl like that. It's an inherently flawed concept to be going off looking for a girl for the express intent of starting a romantic relationship. They're out there. Make some new friends.
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Like Rainer said, you can't just decide to find "her" over night, then go out and except to find someone beyond your wildest dreams. Patience is a virtue. God'll bring around the right one when He knows you're ready for a long-life committment.
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Old 06-04-2007, 03:31 PM   #7
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Old 06-04-2007, 04:06 PM   #8
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Yeah, don't go looking for her, get some friends who are girls, and eventually you'll find one who's right.
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Old 06-04-2007, 04:29 PM   #9
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WAIT. Make good friends, and leave all the drama of romance out of it. It'll come soon enough.[/DawsonMacAllister]
Yup. The same is goin with me and guys. I've made a bunch of guy friends, and God put this special guy into my life!
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Old 06-04-2007, 07:55 PM   #10
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I think going out and "searching" for her is about the worst thing you can do. It seems like, in a lot of cases, people don't find what they're looking for when they go searching for a spouse. But the minute they're not looking for someone, God puts someone in their life and it's a bit of a surprise. You gotta let God work His magic, even though it is tough. I learned that the hard way and now God has blessed me with a very good friend who might just be "the one".
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Old 06-04-2007, 10:21 PM   #11
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Yeah, don't go looking for her, get some friends who are girls, and eventually you'll find one who's right.
Yes. But be sure to get a warranty on them. That way, if they break, you can exchange them for a new, shiny friend.
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Yes. But be sure to get a warranty on them. That way, if they break, you can exchange them for a new, shiny friend.
Do they offer that at Sears?
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Old 06-04-2007, 11:46 PM   #13
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Yeah, it's called the extended friend warranty. Basically, if your friend breaks down, you take them into Sears and they'll give you a new friend on the spot. It applies to both guys and girls. I returned a guy there last week and got a new friend pronto. I highly recommend the warranty.
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Old 06-05-2007, 10:09 AM   #14
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i heard this in a dating seminar once.

"finding a significant other is like fishing. what you catch is based on what bait you use.

if you want to find someone who loves you for your money, flaunt your money.

if you want to find someone who loves you for how you dress, flaunt your clothes.

and if you want to find someone who loves you for how much you love God..."

well, you know the rest.
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Old 06-05-2007, 10:12 AM   #15
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But the minute they're not looking for someone, God puts someone in their life and it's a bit of a surprise. You gotta let God work His magic, even though it is tough. I learned that the hard way and now God has blessed me with a very good friend who might just be "the one".
I'm in the same boat, where I wa'n't lookin fer a guy, then God puts this guy into my life, who has turned out to be a best friend to me Only He knows what's going to happen between us
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