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Old 04-29-2007, 08:22 AM   #1
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Red face It makes me feel really special...
when a guy I like sees me for me. And that's only happened once.

See, I have a physical disability and have to use a walker, and because of that, most guys don't give me a second thought. They see me and usually just don't give me a chance. Either that, or they think I'm stupid and don't talk to me much or at all.

They guy I like now doesn't treat me like that. He sees the real me, not my walker, but me, which is diffrent for me, cause that's not usually the case, for said reason. I don't know why most guys have to be shallow like that

But this guy has become my best friend. I thank God that he's in my life, not only to be a really good friend to me, but to show me that not all guys are like "Oh she's a nobody, forget about her". I know he will always be there for me, nomatter what the case. Cause, unlike a lot of guys, he actually cares about me, which, again, is different for me, but is sweet though.

I don't even know why I'm posting this. I guess it's a little "Vent session", per se.

And this guy makes me feel really special inside. He makes me feel like I'm a normal person, which some guys make me feel like I'm stupid. I think that some guys see my walker, and think that I have a mental dissability too. But I don't.

I'm just extremely glad that God put this guy in my life.

Okay, vent session is over. Thank you for reading the Ray Ray Ramblings.

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Old 04-29-2007, 10:49 AM   #2
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Aww that's really nice and I'm happy for you because I know how it feels to be looked on as "weird" per se and it feels good to have someone that actually understands you. I'm glad God put that person in your life.

Edit: Why is this in dating? Are you dating the guy?

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Old 04-29-2007, 12:25 PM   #3
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It's in Dating And Relationships, there is no forum here titled, "Dating".
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For years I used a typical off-the-shelf bar-type soap and I had no idea that, even though I rinsed properly and thoroughly after every cleansing, there was still a soap scum residue on my hands and fingers.
This negatively affected my tone in ways that I just can't describe.
Then, on a whim, a few years ago I wandered into a Bath and Body Works store at a local mall and picked up some of their gentle foaming anti-bacterial hand cleansers.
The difference in my guitar's sound is so wickedly improved that I no longer feel the need to buy a new amp or pedals or even strings...EVER!
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Old 04-29-2007, 12:58 PM   #4
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That's awesome. I'm glad you met someone like that.

(And this thread is staying right here.)
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Old 04-29-2007, 01:17 PM   #5
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It's in Dating And Relationships, there is no forum here titled, "Dating".
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It's in Dating And Relationships, there is no forum here titled, "Dating".
Jesus would only approve of a Courting forum. Please do not use the D-word again. Sinner.


This thread has bling to it. That is, it is an excellent thread. Congratulations to you, madame. Even for "normal" people, it's hard to be seen for who you really are. I would totally high-five you, though.
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Old 04-29-2007, 01:43 PM   #7
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^Thanks

Yeah, but usually people take one look at my walker, and blow me off.

But it's nice to have someone to care about you, and it's rreally nice to have a guy in yer life to be nice and sweet to you.
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I'll admit that as a guy myself, all too often I found myself thinking of a girl as just a pretty face. But all the female friends I do know I certainly see for their personality and things that make me enjoy spending time with them - part of why I say you should be friends with someone before dating.
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^Not a lot of guys are not like that around me(said reason), they don't try to get to know me first. Most guys that I like, I won't even stand a chance with, because they judge me before they know me, which they don't even get to know me cause they just walk away.

That's why I really like this guy, and why he's my best friend, is because he actually took the time to get to know me, and didn't judge me cause I look different than other people and walk differently. He treats me like a "Normal" girl, and he says that I'm a "normal girl", and that makes me feel good inside, to know that not every single guy clasifies me as "the freaky girl with the walker".
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I just have one concern. Never let guys determine your worth...

Most people are idiots. I just hope and pray you run across more people like this guy of both genders.
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That's awesome. True friends are really hard to find. I am glad you've found one.

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I just have one concern. Never let guys determine your worth...

Most people are idiots. I just hope and pray you run across more people like this guy of both genders.
Amen and amen.

Be careful and don't put this guy on a pedestal.
Keep in mind in any close relationship you're going to hurt each other at times. A solid friendship will last through that though with no worries. Just remember that and stay realistic.
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Old 04-30-2007, 01:35 PM   #12
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^Oh don't worry I'm not "Putting him on a pedestal"(I've only heard that phrase once and it was on a tv show :P) He is just really special to me, cause of the way he treats me, and I haven't run across many, people in general, like that. :Sadyep:
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Old 04-30-2007, 01:39 PM   #13
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And I already know about the hurting part. A few times he's hurt me, and he don't even know it
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And I already know about the hurting part. A few times he's hurt me, and he don't even know it
Tell him when he hurts you. Otherwise, he won't be able to learn from it.
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Tell him when he hurts you. Otherwise, he won't be able to learn from it.
Ditto!! You must.
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