HELP ME!!!

wjarmusch · 04-06-2007, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by crazychu

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i dont know what to say, at 14 years, you really think a band is going to get a girl to notice you? actually i forgot she might be young too. but anyway, you seem be very prideful when it comes to that, as if your music is wonderful aint it? i'm sorry, but i was offended when i read your profile, joke or not.

i know you like this girl, but chances of anything serious coming from this is very slim. but hey, if you insist on having a relationship with her, go try it, ask her out, i know you're 14, but you really like her right? dare i drop the "love" word?

if you're more concerned about her being a distraction from your walk with God and more concerned about how you're feeling 'hurt' and emo all the time then you know what you should do, 14 or not.

i'm only 18, but i've had my share of relationships to know quite some stuff about it and at 14, c'mon dude. btw, looking at your website made me uneasy

i know this is CGR, and it's a Christian forum, i'm sorry for my aggressiveness and attitude approaching your issue.

Dude...did you read the rest of the posts in this thread before you posted. I'm guessing not. The OP seems to have come quite a ways in his attitude.

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i'm sorry, but i was offended when i read your profile, joke or not.

HUH? Sorry, but I've gotta say there's nothing in his profile that should be offensive to you. Don't tell me you never put crazy stuff on myspace when you were 14 (or something similar).

Nbfan...did you read this either? or just post a reply to the main topic?

Random:Dice · 04-07-2007, 01:40 AM

rokr14: if all you want to do is talk to her the whats wrong with talking to you other male friends? seriously, though, you maythink they joke about alot but close friends will always shut up and listen to you share your greivences with them. and being in a band shouldn't make any difference at all to waether of not she 'likes' you.

oh, and consider the usage of a period: "."

rokr14 · 04-07-2007, 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by crazychu

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i dont know what to say, at 14 years, you really think a band is going to get a girl to notice you? actually i forgot she might be young too. but anyway, you seem be very prideful when it comes to that, as if your music is wonderful aint it? i'm sorry, but i was offended when i read your profile, joke or not.

i know you like this girl, but chances of anything serious coming from this is very slim. but hey, if you insist on having a relationship with her, go try it, ask her out, i know you're 14, but you really like her right? dare i drop the "love" word?

if you're more concerned about her being a distraction from your walk with God and more concerned about how you're feeling 'hurt' and emo all the time then you know what you should do, 14 or not.

i'm only 18, but i've had my share of relationships to know quite some stuff about it and at 14, c'mon dude. btw, looking at your website made me uneasy

i know this is CGR, and it's a Christian forum, i'm sorry for my aggressiveness and attitude approaching your issue.

no dude you got it all wrong if you know me you would be laughing at my profile I'm the kinda kid constantally makes jokes and whenever I say I'm awesome or whatever I make a stupid face and laugh I don't think I'm awesome accually in youth group they said to love others as you're self and if I did that then I would end up probubly hating everybody and I don't want to and this girl Isn't taking me away from my walk with God accualy she is helping me get closer to God and we've agreed to just be friends and thats ok with me and if thats all we'll ever be than thats ok I respect her but last night when I watched a movie with her she was looking at the tv screen and a mirror had her face in it and everytime I would look at that mirror my heart just cried out so I still like her and probubly always will but if she Isn't comftorble with more than a friend than thats ok and I don't take pride in my band I'm sooo glad God is allowing me to do what I'm doing because I learned guitar but you know a lot of people play guitar but God also did something else in my life. He taught me how to sing with no lessons I tought myself well God taught me and I sound almost just like the guy from Relient K

rokr14 · 04-07-2007, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Random:Dice

rokr14: if all you want to do is talk to her the whats wrong with talking to you other male friends? seriously, though, you maythink they joke about alot but close friends will always shut up and listen to you share your greivences with them. and being in a band shouldn't make any difference at all to waether of not she 'likes' you.

oh, and consider the usage of a period: "."

I'm serious dude I don't think you read the post where it said I have people I talk to but I just can't get deep enough with them at this age girls are the only one's that care about the deep stuff and so do I but I mean there are guys out there that are talk about deep stuff but I haven't found any yet and talking to girl is so much more fun I'm not gay by far but me and girls just seem to relate better
and I'm not worryed about her liking me I just want to be friends with her and I am

wjarmusch · 04-07-2007, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by rokr14

I'm serious dude I don't think you read the post where it said I have people I talk to but I just can't get deep enough with them at this age girls are the only one's that care about the deep stuff and so do I but I mean there are guys out there that are talk about deep stuff but I haven't found any yet and talking to girl is so much more fun I'm not gay by far but me and girls just seem to relate better
and I'm not worryed about her liking me I just want to be friends with her and I am

I guess that's what happens when a thread gets 5 pages long...people don't read the content before replying to the original post... You can always close the thread if you're done with it.

But seriously If you would use some comma's & periods it would make your posts a LOT easier to read.

rokr14 · 04-07-2007, 02:58 PM

sorry I'll start using commas and stuff, (see I just did it) I'm not gonna close it cuz if I have a problem with the girl I think likes me, then I want to talk about it.

but ya I understand him not wanting to read all of it.

wjarmusch · 04-07-2007, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by rokr14

sorry I'll start using commas and stuff, (see I just did it)

Ahhhhh...so much better. You'll be more popular now too

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I'm not gonna close it cuz if I have a problem with the girl I think likes me, then I want to talk about it.

That makes sense, I was just reminding you of an option if you didn't want people repeatedly posting the same things.

rokr14 · 04-07-2007, 04:34 PM

Ya I thought about closing it, but then I'm like, what if that other girl starts something I don't want to continue and need help, so I'm leaving it open.

rokr14 · 04-10-2007, 08:14 AM

Hey I got an update on the other girl. Ok, last week she introduced one of her friends to me, and I didn't even really know the first girl very well, but now, every time I see either of them, they look at me, smile, then do one of those girl quiet laughs and look at the other one and smile, and I'm like, ok, what's going on here!!

AudioACanuck · 04-10-2007, 08:54 AM

Hmm..... so this is a new girl who likes you but you like the other girl? I know it may seem awkward, but it really isn't, treat the new girl like you'd treat any other girl. Just don't give her the impression that you have feelings for her, she may start to like you a lot and be dissapointed.

wjarmusch · 04-10-2007, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by rokr14

Hey I got an update on the other girl. Ok, last week she introduced one of her friends to me, and I didn't even really know the first girl very well, but now, every time I see either of them, they look at me, smile, then do one of those girl quiet laughs and look at the other one and smile, and I'm like, ok, what's going on here!!

LOL...sounds typical. I'd agree with AudioA. Just treat her like you would anyone else and don't do anything to lead her on. Try and keep your time together in groups so they don't just focus on you (which they might do anyway...). But at your age I doubt it will last too long, it'll go away eventually.

rokr14 · 04-10-2007, 04:00 PM

Ya I'll do that, I've tried to and I think I did, but I'm the only person there that talks to them. They sometimes talk to other people, and I've introduced em to other people, like other girls and stuff, but they don't talk to them, only me, but they have other friends at school and stuff just not at youth group, so I'm like their main focus there now, affective last week. So I'll try to talk to them just like anybody else, I don't treat em like their anything else but my friends, but they treat me more than that, but hopefully it'll blow off soon.