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Originally Posted by adamwagg Perhaps then its the difference between Australia and the US, or maybe the groups we go around in. Because it is certainly my experience. I do not personally know a single person who left church and became an athiest. (and I know plently of people who used to go to church and stopped - normally for the sort of reasons I stated).
Drink and sex were just examples - they are not necessarily the only things or only reasons by the way.
Edit: Actually I think i met one once. But he told me that he'd never really believed in God anyway. He was just going to church cause that's what his parents and his friends did. I can't quite remember if he was an athiest or a 'higher power' person. |
To me, it's not that the church has suddenly become less relevant for these people. Throughout Christian history there have been drunkards and adulterers, and throughout most of Christian history these people have dutifully came to church their entire lives.
What changed? I think it's rather simple: people aren't afraid anymore. The reason these people came to church in the first place is not that they ever rationally believed in the religion, it was that they were afraid. They were bullied into it—quite literally in the middle ages, as refusing to go to church was heresy. Even 50 years ago, going to church was considered a fundamental requirement of society, and people who didn't go were considered abberant, often by the people closest to them. Even today, consider how scorned nonbelievers are—what would your parents say if you told them you didn't believe in Christianity? I am sure many people's parents on CGR would disown them, and this is in 2007.
And then, of course, there was the fear of hellfire and damnation. There's no better way to keep people in your cult than to repeatedly threaten them with eternal torture if they leave—especially if you start doing it at an early age.
Someone said that churches would keep more of their members if they were more welcoming and less hateful. I don't think that's the case at all. In fact, I think the reason why so many Christians are leaving the church when they grow older is precisely because their churches no longer preach hellfire, and their communities and families no longer ostracize and punish unbelievers.
I am quite sure that if apostasy was punished by death, like it was in the middle ages and like it still is today in Islam, you would have far, far less ex-Christians. Like it or not, fear has always been the driving force in keeping people religious. This should surprise no one on this forum: as the Bible says, Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.