Getting a guy off of my back

rokr14 · 04-04-2007, 01:58 PM

ya I if went out with a person that was 10 years older then me it would be like going out with one of my youth leaders...talk about creepy

Katze · 04-04-2007, 02:14 PM

I don't want to go out with him. The whole point of this thread was to ask how I could polietly ask him to stop, without splitting our club.

Thankfully, I haven't seen him since I first started this thread.

rokr14 · 04-04-2007, 02:34 PM

well that's good I know you don't want to go out with him but it would be very creepy having one of my youth leaders having a crush on me I know he's not a youth leader but 10 years difference is how far apart I am from some of my youth leaders

warriormusic150 · 04-04-2007, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Katze

I don't want to go out with him. The whole point of this thread was to ask how I could polietly ask him to stop, without splitting our club.

Thankfully, I haven't seen him since I first started this thread.

First, pray about it, then, tell it him politely. Now how simple could it get! Truth always sets free. Tell him some of the things you said in this thread. Say something like "Sorry I am not in any way attracted to you the way you think." Tell him repeatedly if you think he doesnt get it. Be redundant. Don't give him any chance with any gestures or words and he'll get over it. Well if it doesnt work, be a little harder and a little more harder. Ask someone whom the person submits to if that is possible. If he really likes you (or even loves you), he'll set you free as a bird.

warriormusic150 · 04-04-2007, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by rokr14

well that's good I know you don't want to go out with him but it would be very creepy having one of my youth leaders having a crush on me I know he's not a youth leader but 10 years difference is how far apart I am from some of my youth leaders

Well then I'm glad to be creepy!

The thing is don't judge anyone.

11 brothers thought Joseph is creepy and has creepy dreams and they threw him in a hole. A whole generation thought Jesus is creepy and they nailed Him on the cross. But all they did was to declare truth.

Oooops... Am I becoming far out? Sorry...

AudioACanuck · 04-05-2007, 06:09 AM

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Originally Posted by warriormusic150

Well then I'm glad to be creepy!

The thing is don't judge anyone.

11 brothers thought Joseph is creepy and has creepy dreams and they threw him in a hole. A whole generation thought Jesus is creepy and they nailed Him on the cross. But all they did was to declare truth.

Oooops... Am I becoming far out? Sorry...

A ten year difference is all relevant, between 16 and 26 there is a lot of difference, between 70 and 80 there is practically none. Like if she is 16 I'd assume shes still in high school, where he could have gone to university and have like 5 years of work experience, they are at totally different points in there lives. And she does not want a relationship with him ever.

Katze · 04-05-2007, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by AudioACanuck

A ten year difference is all relevant, between 16 and 26 there is a lot of difference, between 70 and 80 there is practically none. Like if she is 16 I'd assume shes still in high school, where he could have gone to university and have like 5 years of work experience, they are at totally different points in there lives. And she does not want a relationship with him ever.

I'm in college (homeschooled, and started early), and I think that he assumed that if I was in college, I would be old enough for him to ask out.

This discussion is a little pointless at this time, since I haven't seen him, and I'm ready to talk to him, or kick him in the teeth, or what ever I need to do. Honestly, I had never been asked out before, and I had no idea of how to handle the situation. I now know, and thanks to all who helped.

LefseRae · 04-05-2007, 02:03 PM

You can close it if you want. *smile*

AudioACanuck · 04-10-2007, 06:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Katze

I'm in college (homeschooled, and started early), and I think that he assumed that if I was in college, I would be old enough for him to ask out.

This discussion is a little pointless at this time, since I haven't seen him, and I'm ready to talk to him, or kick him in the teeth, or what ever I need to do. Honestly, I had never been asked out before, and I had no idea of how to handle the situation. I now know, and thanks to all who helped.

Oh I see now, good luck(for lack of a better term) kicking him in the teeth