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Old 02-27-2007, 08:06 PM   #1
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need advice with relationships...
I like this girl and she likes me, but she doesn't want to date right now... any advice?

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Old 02-27-2007, 08:29 PM   #2
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Don't date right now. *wink*

Be friends.
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Old 02-27-2007, 09:46 PM   #3
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Yeah, that was pretty simple... next!
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Old 02-27-2007, 09:51 PM   #4
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Here's some advice with the relationships that you can tuck away...

Listen to the lady.
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Old 02-28-2007, 06:31 AM   #5
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lol that was the quickest question and answer I ever did seed or sawed.
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Old 02-28-2007, 09:59 AM   #6
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Yup, just give it time dude... It'll help the relationship and moreover, in His time He'll make all things beautiful... Well, me in your shoes, would've just been around, not forcing stuff... And, yes, sometimes you'll think what if...? and all... Just keep your head cool, thinking such things you'll land up low in the dumps...
And all that i can see is that your are doing well in this bro, just keep it up in prayer... God Bless...
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Old 02-28-2007, 10:25 AM   #7
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Don't take it as a rejection or something. What she is doing apparently is maturely saying, "I am not in a good position to date right now." Just stay good friends, work on your friendship, and someday, when she feels ready, you can ask her again. How old are you guys by the way?
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she is 15 almost 16, and I am 16
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Old 02-28-2007, 11:12 AM   #9
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You guys are too young. If you really like her that much, you can wait a year for her. If you can't wait, then she's not the one for you.
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Old 02-28-2007, 12:51 PM   #10
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My personal advice would then be to wait and give it 2-3 years or so, at least. Just stay friends, and when you get to that time down the road, if you guys still really like each other, then you can try pursuing a relationship. Until then, let it drop and don't worry about it. I know for me personally, I don't still have feelings for the girl I liked at 15-16. It was just a crush that passed away, even after having said crush for almost 3 years. We are perfectly good friends. She still doesn't know to this day, and things are perfectly normal.
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thanks for all the advice...
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