[upperground]

that's the ticket. I just wish I was skinnier.

[cngp90]

probly being the kind of person people call 'nice guy' won't get you girls dying to go out with you and it will probably take longer for you to find somebody to go on a date with you or anything like that, but perhaps the 'nice guys' will get the kind of girl that is really worth having, ya know? the girls that are gonna be crazy for the 'bad boys' (for a christian anyway) probly won't last long anyway and as soon as they see a guy that catches their attention more than you, they dump ya and go out with him. Of course if your the kinda guy that attracts girls like that as soon as shes gone you'll have another one, but like i said, she's probly not one worth having.

were way off subject though. I think what people have already said about conversations are real true. I know for me, if i can get my focus off my attraction for a girl, it makes it way easier for me to have a real conversation.
But find out what the girl is interested in. most people are interested in music these days, or the latest thing their crazy friend did, or if they're a true christian they'll like talking about God. and talking about god is probly one of the best things to talk about cause you need to know the spiritual condition of somebody your interested in. its the most important thing to know about.

[Guitaress]

Originally Posted by Gods*Armygirl

You are lucky to find someone like that.

Yes I am. I've NEVER found someone like him in my whole life, and on top of that, I have a physical disability, and use a walker, so most guys tend to ignore me

But he doesn't. And I thank God every day that He put this guy in my life!

[Gods*Armygirl]

Yeah, I read your other thread. Well good for you. It truely is hard to find any guy like that. Sorry that I'm a little off subject.

[Symbiotic]

be yourself...don't be fake....don't use a pick-up line....don't talk about yourself(personally, if you don't know her at all, don't even start with a name, just say hi, ask her how she is)....instead, ask about her...if she's interested, she will ask about you....