[musicianist]

ty for the imput passinthru, its not that im uncomfortable with it. i actually enjoy it, as long as she enjoys giving it. to a certain point. we do have our set boundaries. the only thing i dont like is that she is doing it against her parents. thats all. right now i am just giving her space, and her parents know that. so im not in a questionable position if they see her put her arm around me or hug me, or anything for that matter. and her concious is finally kicking in. so i think thats just what ill keep doing for now.

Thanks again for the imput everyone!!

[Nate]

This is a really weird thread.

How is one "addicted" to hugs?

[zekthedeadcow]

(pass'n thru)

as mentioned earlier I think this falls in to a 'touch-me' tell-me' 'show-me' 'do-me' communication issue. Being touch oriented myself I can really imagine, that to her, the relationship is the touch. Lacking that, it's like not talking and calling yourselves a couple. Of course she'll slip at it, because she wants the connection to the relationship.