HELLP AGAIN!!!!!

AutumnTides · 12-29-2006, 04:00 PM

k i know im posting a lot of help ads but i really need some help with this too. our youth group sucks really bad. we used to have a sweet youth group but our pastor died and people left and it just got horrible right now our youth leaders is in his early fourtys and has no idea how to run a youth group at all we have had about 12 youths and 11 have been service nights the one other one i organised behind the youth leaders back and had every one come over instead. i know its good to serve people and i think its great but 11 out of 12 youth its rediculas i dont understand it and when we get back from shoveling the churches walkway or cleaning the church or i cant even think of any more things like before we used to get together hangout get strong realtionships with eachother and like grow in god but now i dont even wana go any more i dont mind doning a few service nights a year but frick this just cheeses me off i duno what to do because ever since my youthgroup became stupid i have been so depressed i havent bin myself life just sucks i need to know what to do should i start a youth group behind youthleaders back? go to a new one not go at all or keep going and keep my mouth shut...please help this means the world to me.

stanselpants · 12-31-2006, 08:32 AM

I think it is awesome God has given you a heart for your youth group and that alone tells me you shouldnt stop going because of this bump in the road. Try to sit down with your new youth pastor and tell him what is going on. I can tell that God has made you a leader because you care and seem to have the qualities of a leader. Maybe you can schedule a weekly bible study at your house or the church and leads it yourself. I dont think any youth pastor would stop anyone from doing that. Tell me how things turn out.

AutumnTides · 01-06-2007, 07:45 PM

thanks man i really hope it works out i just want it to be good again

stanselpants · 01-07-2007, 04:02 PM

It will!

AutumnTides · 02-03-2007, 08:39 PM

wow dude!!! no joke god pulled through 100 percent our old youth leader somehow became fun over the las 4 youths our church is hiring a part time youth leader and im starting to feel a lot less depressed pfft and to think i was planning on leaving...god had a plan this whole time and i just didnt get it...oh well thanks for the help

stanselpants · 02-04-2007, 06:59 AM

Thats awesome! God's awesome! I hope all goes well here in the future, just keep praying.