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Old 12-27-2006, 05:10 PM   #16
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Girl let me break it down to you. Girl Girl Girl, First of all you're attracted to the WRONG guys. I don't understand why a guy that smoke, drinks, and does drugs can be so appealing to a christian girl. Is it just the fact that he's cute?I honestly don't think this is going to work out. I think that first you should come to know him well and be a good influence on him, then maybe he will stop wit some of his faults. Ask God, if he says this is the guy for you then go for it. If not, stay out of his way because he can become a bad influence on you if you still like him in the long run, you may want to impress him by doing those things. Stay prayerful.

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Old 12-27-2006, 10:49 PM   #17
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Ask God, if he says this is the guy for you then go for it. If not, stay out of his way because he can become a bad influence on you if you still like him in the long run, you may want to impress him by doing those things.
There's no need to ask him. His answer is already in the Bible...
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/...:14&version=31
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Old 12-28-2006, 06:49 AM   #18
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There's no need to ask him. His answer is already in the Bible...
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/...:14&version=31
Fine, don't ask him. Just skip the guy.
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Old 12-28-2006, 10:12 AM   #19
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I don't understand why a guy that smoke, drinks, and does drugs can be so appealing to a christian girl.
Because Christian girls aren't instinctively attracted to just good Christian guys?
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Old 12-28-2006, 10:27 AM   #20
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Because Christian girls aren't instinctively attracted to just good Christian guys?
Yeah but didn't I justify that statement
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Old 12-28-2006, 10:37 AM   #21
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OK theres this guy at my school, and I really, REALLY like him. Theres just one tiny problem. OK make that a big problem. He's not a christian, he smokes, does drugs, drinks, and all that nasty stuff. We're not really friends (yet) although we do talk occassionally, usually with other friends around. I just don't know what to do! I'm so confused. Please give advice! Thanks
Why are you even attracted to him if he smokes, drinks, takes drugs and all that? Don't see him. Don't talk to him. Remove him from your life. That's what the Bible says. We are to remove ourselves from any stumbling block.
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Old 12-28-2006, 11:08 AM   #22
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OK theres this guy at my school, and I really, REALLY like him. Theres just one tiny problem. OK make that a big problem. He's not a christian, he smokes, does drugs, drinks, and all that nasty stuff. We're not really friends (yet) although we do talk occassionally, usually with other friends around. I just don't know what to do! I'm so confused. Please give advice! Thanks
So what EXACTLY attracts you to him? AND how do you know that you really really like him if your not friends yet????

Be careful sweetie.... not sure how old you are but its a road I've walked in my distant past and I can tell you its not pretty.....

...and lastly... be point blank with God..."Lord, what the heck am I suppose to do with these feelings and this guy... and Lord, reveal yourself to him"..... hang tight kiddo....
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Old 01-06-2007, 03:40 PM   #23
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Thanks guys! this is great advice. When I first liked him, I didn't know about all the stuff hes into. I just thought he was funny and stuff, and then my friend told me about all that stuff. I haven't talked to him since, but I don't know what is going to happen. I definitely won't go out with him or anything. I have to agree with all of you. Thanks
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