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legendary_chin · 11-24-2006, 05:14 PM

ok so I went on this trip to a place called Puerto Peñasco...it was a christian trip I went with a church that I used to go to...and I met new people I had never seen or spoke to...and then I saw this girl, and yeah, well I like her...and now since the day I got back I haven't been able to forget about her. I don't know what to do...and I have like some other girls before...but I have never felt like this for any of them...I think that one of the things that caused it was that I didn't get the chance to really talk to her...and now this feeling is kindof getting on my nerves...I can't forget about her and she lives in mexicali, I don't know when is the next time I will see ger again...so any opinions on what I am feeling, if it is good or bad...or what I should do...I really appreciate any comment..thanks.

O and I forgot one thing...it is super emberrasing so I just cant say it here in public...lol...

bobthecockroach · 11-24-2006, 08:13 PM

Well, feel free to PM me if you want to talk about things you can't mention in public.

But, as for the situation at hand, if the chances are good that you'll never see her again or not see her for a very long time, your best bet is probably to just move on. I know it sucks when you feel like there really was something there, but sometimes things just don't work out like we want them to.

legendary_chin · 11-24-2006, 10:12 PM

I am pretty sure that I will see her again now...she goes to this church...the only problem now is that it won't be for a whyle...but if she has an email I am going to get it, I already got someone who might be able to give it to me..

bobthecockroach · 11-24-2006, 10:18 PM

Oh ok. Well, just don't get your hopes up too high then. Like you said, you didn't really get a chance to talk to her. You don't really have much to go on here. Something may work out, or nothing may work out. If you go in thinking you've found the love of your life, you'll probably end up disappointed (even if she does even being the love of your life, things probably won't go as smoothly as you'd like). If you go in thinking that you're interested and want to try to get to know her better and see where things go, I think things will go better.

legendary_chin · 11-24-2006, 10:36 PM

ok, yeah thats what i was thinking...to talk to her and become friends...but its the fealing that i have right now that also creats a problem right now...

**Rainer.** · 11-26-2006, 06:42 PM

Well, I'm gonna say that your feelings are a little irrational and you probably know it. Treat her like any other friend.