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Old 11-21-2006, 08:03 PM   #1
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Hey ya'll,
I brought this up in a earlier post here, titled "So Theres This girl"
And now that I'm back home, and opportunity has presented itself to tell her how I feel. Should I go for it. For thos of u who don't know me, I have a hard time with decision making in this area. I don't know how she's going to react.

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do you have a link for yor older post, this could help others of us who haven't seen the post.
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Old 11-22-2006, 06:03 AM   #4
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Well, I don't know your history, but I say don't jump the gun. Ask her out for coffee, ask her out to the movie, spend a lot of time with her. When the chance presents itself, hug her, don't come out and tell her in words or it will seem frightening, as if you are pressuring her. Your actions should always describe how you feel: interested, caring.

I am not saying wait, I am just saying, don't come on too strong!
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Old 11-22-2006, 03:17 PM   #5
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Well, I don't know your history, but I say don't jump the gun. Ask her out for coffee, ask her out to the movie, spend a lot of time with her. When the chance presents itself, hug her, don't come out and tell her in words or it will seem frightening, as if you are pressuring her. Your actions should always describe how you feel: interested, caring.

I am not saying wait, I am just saying, don't come on too strong!
Very true. (I'm saying this from a girls perspective)
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Old 11-23-2006, 10:50 PM   #6
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I'm not sure how to do links.
I talked with my dad and he is willing to set a get together between her family and my family so that I can get a chance to chat. Coffee is a really great idea though.
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Old 01-09-2007, 03:59 PM   #7
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Hey ya'll,
I brought this up in a earlier post here, titled "So Theres This girl"
And now that I'm back home, and opportunity has presented itself to tell her how I feel. Should I go for it. For thos of u who don't know me, I have a hard time with decision making in this area. I don't know how she's going to react.
I have and had the same problem. It took a LOT of encouraging from my friend fer me to tell this guy that I like him.

My advice is, just tell her, and wait fer her reaction. It might take awhile, believe me, but it'll be worth it
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Well, I don't know your history, but I say don't jump the gun. Ask her out for coffee, ask her out to the movie, spend a lot of time with her. When the chance presents itself, hug her, don't come out and tell her in words or it will seem frightening, as if you are pressuring her. Your actions should always describe how you feel: interested, caring.

I am not saying wait, I am just saying, don't come on too strong!
Sure get to know her better, but don't not tell her. The worst thing to start a relationship with is a lack of communication.
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