[the crossing]

No of course i have boundries! I was thinking yusss in a different context.
I have never had a girlfriend so i was merely pointing out that if someone in my church told me how they felt towards me it would be a real 'buzz'!
I have cetain boundries i put in place, eg i will only go out with someone if i know i can commit to marrying the girl. Hence why i have never had a girlfriend.
my apologies for talking in teenage coloquialism, i am just trying to re-live my
teenage years.

[kcdancer]

Thank you all so much for your advice and encouragment! I hung out with they man I like yesterday and had a great time. I do just need to calm down and breathe.

Maybe if you boys were just easier to read...ha! Just kidding! Girls over analyze so much. It's our nature to. I know that I need to just relax and put 100% of my faith in the fact that God knows what he's doing. It's just hard in today's society when you have the pressures of everyone around you getting married, a brother who's getting married next year and your family asking "So, when do you think you might find that special someone?"

Thanks again for your support - and for those of you still looking for the one God has chosen for them - I wish you luck and patience. May God bless your journey.

[Andrew]

I would like to state that it is human nature to over-analyze, and not just female nature.

[OctaviusIII]

Indeed, on yours as well! Parting advice: don't get rushed into marriage; take your time, relax, and enjoy the flight. If you focus on the destination too much, you'll lose sight of the journey, and that won't be good for anyone.

But anyway, good luck to you!

[the crossing]

its all gravey!!!! glad we can all be of some assistance to you!
i wish you the all the best and let me know how things go!!!!!
maybe some advise down my way on my future endevours!! lol!!!!!
Keep in touch!
Dan