| At this point, I would say, just be friends if you need to be together, don't go any further. You aren't ready to be married, So what are you doing? What is a relationship like that for if not for marrage? I'm 16 so I know it's a hard thing to deal with 'cause you don't want to be alone. But if he's a Chirstian, he's your brother in Christ first and formost, and his job as your brother in Christ is to protect you. Do you really think he's trying to protect you if he's dating you?
And if he's not a Christian what are you doing with him at all? The Bible states clearly that we are not to be in a relationship with unbelievers. ( I know you said he's a christian, but just in case there was any doubt...)
P.S. I also agree that asking your parents and obeying the law are good things. |